It is about time we gathered to decide what requirements and restrictions we should put on !incels membership (given the new influx of aspiring members)
Here are my thoughts:
Men only.
Virgin only, KHHV is too strict imo (I am KV btw, so full transparency).
No ping group farmers
Those in the !truecels ping group should be rejected
No gays allowed
No anti-incels
thoughts?
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Your 10 year employment gap will turn to 20 if you dont start somewhere, ffs, try anything. Get your mind right and stack up some little wins that will turn to big wins.
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I am trying. But every time I go for a win I am hit with 100 losses at once. Society is built for people who are NOT me. It is built for people who are social, agreeable, content to do the same thing over and over again. People who don't mind talking on the phone even though text based communication is superior. People who don't mind dealing with bureaucracy. It takes me like 2 hours to schedule a doctors appointment because the though of calling them is difficult and for some reason their online scheduling doesn't work. How am I supposed to make it in a world that actively works against me to keep me down?
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Holy shit you sound exactly like a kennel assistant, report straight to your nearest animal shelter
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I have a degree, that job is beneath me.
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Neighbor it sounds like exactly 0 jobs are beneath you
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Really? Why am I not doing it then if it isn't beneath me? Maybe if I had to support myself it wouldn't be beneath me, but I have rich parents.
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You're not doing it because you're too pathetic to work up the courage to leave the house. Start somewhere
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I also don't want to just work to make someone else rich. I wouldn't mind working, but I want to keep my dignity.
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Yes, working for your local county owned animal shelter will totally just be lining the pockets of all the fat cats exploiting the lucrative field of homeless animals you fricking moron.
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You need to get plugged into a group of normal men, preferably Gen X. Find a men's therapy group. Find men outside of the internet and surround yourself with people who are trying to grow, that will push you. There's nothing wrong with you beyond being a kitty, and getting around men who arent kitties will rub off on you to the point someone will find you attractive enough to let you poke her kitty.
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These groups do not exist, and most gen x men I see have ugly wives.
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They do, I am part of some.
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thanks for the advice, but I just don't see how spending time around men is going to solve my needs of finding women. All of my hobbies are mostly male ones, all I do outside of the gym is train wrestling and bjj. I just don't see the need for male friends because I don't have those type of social needs. There just isn't anything in it for me.
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You have need of it because of this...
You are not a man, yet. You can't handle your own shit, much less handle the shit for women. Women will not find you attractive if they think they are more capable than you. Go learn how to be a man from other men, and women will come with time.
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That is not going to work for me. I just don't have that much in common with most men. If Zyzz was still alive I wouldn't mind hanging around him, but what are other men going to teach me about being a man? For gen x they are not going to be able to tell me how to online date, and in person dating is 100 percent dead and most statistics prove it. Are they going to suddenly put a love of people inside me? As for the doctors appointment thing, it's not that I don't know how. It's just another example of the failure of bureaucracy. I hate dealing with that shit so much, why the frick do I have to get on the phone when an online form could take care of it in 5 seconds? Why is there so much arbitrary bullshit like that in every facet of society? I just can't take it.
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