https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1b8svg7/advice_required_from_men_how_does_one_go_about/
I am perfect on paper
Half a year ago she realised why she is single and been working on it, so as you see very successful
Also this comment:
Me. 8 years. Because I can't find someone I connect with mentally, emotionally and spirituality :)
She is 32 so at her prime she couldn't find a Chad and she still going strong 
Also b-word been trying at her mid 30 friend zone guys
https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/vzm826/meeting_new_male_friends_group_friends/
So the sub is legit femcel sub
Also she asked men help and comments she gets:
Woman here.
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Lmao she trauma dumps or has some other glaring personality flaw, maybe she's just a total b-word. Who knows.
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Trauma dumping is seemingly so normalized that I can barely factor it into my judgements anymore. I just accept that it's probably going to happen.
Maybe I need to do some introspection on why this happens to me so frequently.
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With apps drowning a lot of foids in a sea of options they seem to kind of try to speedrun through potential hitches to keep from getting invested with a dude and then finding out afterwards that he has an issue with her trauma. It's the feminine equivalent of scrotes never opening up to a foid again after they get rejected by a partner for revealing trauma.
It especially gets bad as they get older because they both have way more trauma and they feel like they have less time to waste.
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idk I think it's a simpler case of women have a tendency to dump whatever negative thing happening in their life on you regardless of whether that's some past trauma or complaining for hours about someone at work etc
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This didn't used to be a thing though.
Could be the modern terminally online obsession with victim culture and therapy speak spilling over into personal lives though.
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I think it's just inherent, part of the 'support me while I raise the baby' instinct where support to them in part means listening to them complain
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I genuinely cant tsll if trauma dumping means they hate you or they trust you
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neither, they just identify you as someone they can use to dump shit onto
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Thank god I got side hoes
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trauma is an overused and fake word by "ppl" (f*ids) who have never actually experienced it. Actual traumacels keep it to themselves and cope thru substance abuse and/or dangerous or silly behavior
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She is probably just unbelievably aloof. A lot of these foids confuse playing hard to get with borderline frigid b-word.
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