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FAT FOID COPING AHEAD
You will never get over him saying this. It will play in your head as long as you're with him. He doesn't deserve you.
There are men who will love you and who'll think you're hot exactly as you are. Leave this prick and look for a real partner.
This. My then fiance left a workout DVD on the seat of my car one night so I'd find it when I left for work. That was 20 years ago, we split up a long time ago, and that shit still bothers me.
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Ask him. "What kind of a response are you expecting from me? Because this is pretty manipulative. Your negativity is yours to fix, not mine."
Yeah, it probably won't go over well. But with a dude like this, who cares? Do you want him trying to manipulate you into "yes, sir, I'll change my body for you" for the rest of your life? He is showing you who he is. Believe him.
Call him out on it. His response will tell you if he's worth making it work.
I would absolutely end this relationship because of this. You deserve a man who is attracted to you 100%, not someone who feels like they are settling. You're going to think about this every time you see him and you'll never know if you're good enough for him. I don't see a future in a relationship where this is an issue.
caring about your partners health = manipulative
One word. Bye.
Actually, 2. Bye, bitch.
Lmfao best comment
He is 100% trying to manipulate you. He’s pretending he thinks he’s the issue, putting himself down, while also shaming you so you’ll feel guilty and change for him. Don’t.
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Your reply is “this is a you problem, not a me problem. You want someone skinny, go find one.”
Oh snap!!!!! This!
SO MUCH THIS!!!
It feels manipulative to me. Saying you’re wife material, but… Then adding in he feels like he is pushing you and you don’t really want it. I think he wants you to be swooning by the “you’re wife material” so you will say “no I do want it, I do.” Then if you succeed he got what he wanted but it was you who wanted it or if you fail it’s your fault he isn’t marrying you.
I could be wrong, but this is what it feels like to me.
this is the result of women in ameriKKKa being referred to white woman therapists who charge by the hour to talk to you like a friend and validate your experiences and assure you that nothing in life is your fault
Sounds like he needs therapy. You are not the person to help him process his feelings around attraction and weight.
Can you imagine saying anything like this about someone’s body, regardless of their relationship? It is not appropriate and no one else’s responsibly to work through what he is feeling.
The social norms regarding weight and beauty are harmful. They harm everyone in our society.
Your value is inherent.
see, just what i said.
This reads to me as gaslighting and abuse. You're somehow not good enough and need to try harder because he just can't find you attractive as you are? What's next? Where's the line? My reply would be "I will box your shit up and you can come get it at (date and time). Miss it and it goes to the dump." I also have a zero tolerance policy for this stuff because it's a thing I have struggled with my entire life. That cycle just demands me with romance. So soften as needed if you're going this route.
Is he perfect? Why do you need to change but he is just fine? Why isn't he applying this to his own issues? If you're so great and perfect your body should not be a barrier. This is a cop out and disgusting. You deserve better
heckin GASLIGHTING
From one of my favorite TikToks: If I'm too much, go find less.
And follow up: DUMP HIS ASS.
I think this is when you do your hair toss, check your nails, and get the frick gone. I am so very very sorry you had to read his words. I’m sorry you will remember them even for a minute. I’m sorry he hid that from you for so long. I hope with all my heart you can let any of that attachment fall away because you know you lost nothing really and chose you with extreme prejudice. Love and peace to you Goddess!
Ewww. He sounds like one of those men that is attracted to big girls and is embarrassed about it. You deserve SO much better, period. 🩵
ACTUALLY you do want to frick us
Here is your reply: "Baby, I have tried my best to deal with this myself and just ignore it, but I just can't anymore, and I have to be honest with you finally. Your peepee is so small I can't feel anything. The only way I get off is by using my toys, and I know it's a ME problem, but I couldn't keep lying to you anymore."
obligatory small peepee “joke”
MY JAW LEGIT DROPPED UM
how could he say that 
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b-word is a r-slurred fat girl peepee, and bro is about to dodge a massive
bullet.
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Once again reddit inadvertently helping people dodge bullets, reddit's saving grace
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Yeah, if he knew she was being brainwashed to become even fatter instead of losing weight, he'd probably already be gone.
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They're all literally helping do him a favour! 😂
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Wait, do fatcels really?
whose responsibility is it to fix their own "negativity"? Honey imma give up my job, career and life to babysit you 24X7 because you can't stop shoving junk down your throat.
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nonironically the life goal of many foids
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How can you even live like that
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you can do both at the same time
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Idk if I could juggle both at the same time
sounds like a full time job 
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if you’re both introverts you can. just sit in the same room with her and listen to her
every once in a. whille
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haha that's not a real thing, that won't ever happento me ever again 
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Got darn, this b-word is trying to be supportive and came up with a more biting diss than any dramatard will in this thread
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Do fatties REALLY
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If you defining increasing your atherosclerosis then yeah.
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No there aren't. Physical attraction is a mandatory part of every relationship. You might get someone with a fat girl fetish but that's the best you're gonna get unless you lose some weight.
That guy's a girl peepee too for going the 'you're soooooo amazing just loose a teenyweeny bit of weight for me baby'. All that will achieve is she gets angry about it and then goes back to the previous life of stuffing her face. No need to be needlessly cruel but honesty and directness has higher priority than not hurting her feelings. Make her aware that it's serious and she'll lose the relationship if she doesn't change and then she'll probably lose some weight.
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when moids have no standards
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maybe hes ascended from inceldom and this is his only chance at girl peepee
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This is descending from inceldom though
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Exactly, he's trying to fit a body kit to his 1994 Nissan Sentra, because he can't afford a real sports car.
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This is why male attention is worthless. You guys need to do more intra-gender bullying
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You will never be able to get over him saying this. You have no brain, you have no willpower, you have no reason. You are a hysterical hamplanet twisted by goyslop and diabetes into a crude mockery of nature’s perfection.
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lmbo this guy is in for a rude awakening. If someone is fat in their youth, there's a miniscule chance they're suddenly going to find the habits to be skinny into their thirties and beyond.
But anyway, someone who texts their girlfriend "wifey material 💕" doesn't deserve a thin wife.
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According to redditors, any situation in which your partner is not completely subservient to you is a MASSIVE RED FLAG...
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Let's not get ahead of ourselves. He cares about her attractiveness, not her health
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That's almost by definition the same thing
The future is female
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Yikes
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Volcel if you wouldn’t
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Totally the same thing
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Might as well be the same thing for this hamplanet.
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Why are
so averse to the thought self improvement? Even when the dude brought it up in the nicest way possible.
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I think
@arseupwrongo brought it up before but foids genuinely believe in "just b urself" ideology, even in the face of physical reality. The idea that a foids current identity and behaviors are bad for her (and therefore shameful) runs counter to this, so you get gigaseethe like in the OP.
Weirdly enough this is what incel males suffer from too, where they want to be considered as "winners" by simply existing without any sort of "-maxxing" because their default state should be good enough to get Chad treatment. Don't listen to their lies about how all they want is a relationship, they want a relationship with a qt looksmatch or higher that is with them mainly for their sexual desirability, and hasn't had higher levels sexual attraction and/or relations with other men.
It's fundamentally the rage of losers, people who are so narcissistic that the idea of having to change for other people is fundamentally unacceptable, despite desiring and expecting others to change for them.
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OPPRESSION! GASLIGHTING!
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It's kind of a shame that the FQ is going to be answered with that diabetes drug, because the cope and seethe around the issue from People of Size bears an awful lot of resemblance to general addiction/vice cope (yet is increasingly socially acceptable). Would've been nice if we'd come up with a more general solution to the willpower problem. I guess the boozers and fentanarians have naltrexone at least.
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nah its not that effective without lifestyle interventions. it helps you lose weight, it doesn't lose weight for you, and it doesn't cure whatever psychological problems cause these cows to binge eat until their stomach hurts every day
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Wonder if they'd find it offensive to be gifted ozempic.
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Bro all that expensive butt drug does is make you feel fuller while giving you diarrhea. The studies show you lose like 10 more pounds with diet and exercise over the course of several weeks compared to placebo, it's definitely not worth. Especially since it stops working the moment you stop taking it.
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I wonder how many of these people are teenagers, it's gotta be a decent amount
When I was a teen I was definitely giving out advice on Reddit constantly even when nobody asked
LANA YOU GREEDY FAT PEDOPHILIC WHORE
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Dude needs to learn that you can't change people. Don't date a fatty hoping she'll get thin. Nothing you do will make that happen. Only date a fatty if you're happy dating a fatty.
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Closing the SITE for a DDOS wasn't OK. (
I totally realize most people are going to disagree with me here but I feel compelled to say that closing the site for a simple ddos wasn't a very kind thing to do. We have seen TONS of posts from vulnerable populations talking about how this site is a source of support and humor in a dark time. Irony and dirtbagism aside, taking away that support without warning was not okay.
You can say I'm being silly, or humorless or reactionary. Whatever. I love the show and I love this community. But sometimes I come home after dealing with ableism and our nightmare reality all day, and this sub is one of many things that make me feel better. It wasn't a good feeling to find this sub closed for the sake of irony. Maybe that's laughable or pathetic. But for me, it's true.
Snapshots:
unddit.com
archive.org
ghostarchive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
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Nice post, bro! I posted it to twitter.
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