r/PlusSize users asks if she should allow her boyfriend to get on rides that SHE can't fit on

There's guides out there that say which rides are inclusive at specific parks, so I'd look that up so you know which rides you can get on and which you'd say no to. That can make the whole day less awkward and shameful for you.

Imagine being so fat you need a guide to find rides to can fit on, you feel shame/embarassment all day, and your partner can't go on rides because you get upset because you won't fit.

BUT THEN DO NOTHING ABOUT BEING FAT.

The combination of learned helplessness and out of control narcissim is just fricking painful to witness.