Terrified of intimacy
I am a woman, about 270lbs. I just started dating a woman who is a real catch, shes beautiful, kind, funny, caring, and intelligent. She's quite petit, the opposite of me and though she seems to like me a lot, I am terrified of intimacy because of how much I hate my body. I hate the way I look with my clothes off and it's starting to hold me back in this relationship. Everytime we start kissing, I get scared when hands start to wander and break it off. She invited me round for dinner but I'm scared, actually terrified that it will turn into something! We've been on 4 dates and I'm aware this is when things start to get less-casual.
Does anyone experience this? I hate my stomach, my thighs, everything. I'm so so so scared about this but I like her so much and I don't want to throw this relationship away
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Foid sexuality is inherently narcisssistic. Their arousal is derived from how the situation makes them feel about themselves. This is why a girl needs to be made to "feel sexy" to get off. You don't have to extensively reassure a moid that he is the biggest Chad on the planet just to make him receptive to a blowjob.
B-word is insecure about her weight, so she can't just get over herself and focus on enjoying getting her box ate. Men don't give a frick, and are taught to deal with this shit in order to be intimate with a partner, two women means twice as much of this fricking game.
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