Terrified of intimacy
I am a woman, about 270lbs. I just started dating a woman who is a real catch, shes beautiful, kind, funny, caring, and intelligent. She's quite petit, the opposite of me and though she seems to like me a lot, I am terrified of intimacy because of how much I hate my body. I hate the way I look with my clothes off and it's starting to hold me back in this relationship. Everytime we start kissing, I get scared when hands start to wander and break it off. She invited me round for dinner but I'm scared, actually terrified that it will turn into something! We've been on 4 dates and I'm aware this is when things start to get less-casual.
Does anyone experience this? I hate my stomach, my thighs, everything. I'm so so so scared about this but I like her so much and I don't want to throw this relationship away
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Lesbian culture is sexless by nature
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It's also violent. If she tries to initiate intimacy, beat her. Problem solved.
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I don't get it, it's not like the other woman isn't aware OP is a gigachonker, she must be okay with it, what's the problem?
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Seen it a couple times in younger lesbians - the smaller woman has very little confidence and slowly grows it during the relationship which inversely affects the fat woman's confidence, causing a rift and then the breakup. I'm guessing this will happen with the OP's relationship too otherwise she wouldn't be insecurely posting to reddit about it.
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Oooh, true.
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she left out that she hasnt blesched her butthole and/or has a swastika tattoo on her left tit
!slots1000
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"She was ok with being rolled on" probably won't hold up in court
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Foid sexuality is inherently narcisssistic. Their arousal is derived from how the situation makes them feel about themselves. This is why a girl needs to be made to "feel sexy" to get off. You don't have to extensively reassure a moid that he is the biggest Chad on the planet just to make him receptive to a blowjob.
B-word is insecure about her weight, so she can't just get over herself and focus on enjoying getting her box ate. Men don't give a frick, and are taught to deal with this shit in order to be intimate with a partner, two women means twice as much of this fricking game.
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My dude just now cracked the code!
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all women are AGP
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Good. Sge should be terrified of crushing her normal sized gf
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The time has come for the Necromaster. The unleashing of the fourth joker's card. The arrival of The Great Milenko
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at 270 there is a very small community of feeders that will enjoy your body, besides that group...you are gross and fat...
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I find anti-chaser people weird, if I had a niece subsection of people of would find me attractive no matter what I would love that, not complain that normal people don't like me instead.
The fact the /r/plussize complains about fetish chasers so much is funny
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agree...there are chasers for any group, literally any based on what ive seen on reddit and elsewhere...instead of just embracing it, they push the only people that want them away so they can continue complaining...
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i have no idea how 'fat' someone is just be hearing their weight in lbs/kgs (having always been thin myself
) can someone link me to a pic of a 120kg woman
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she even lost the lesbian haircut
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Snapshots:
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