Terrified of intimacy
I am a woman, about 270lbs. I just started dating a woman who is a real catch, shes beautiful, kind, funny, caring, and intelligent. She's quite petit, the opposite of me and though she seems to like me a lot, I am terrified of intimacy because of how much I hate my body. I hate the way I look with my clothes off and it's starting to hold me back in this relationship. Everytime we start kissing, I get scared when hands start to wander and break it off. She invited me round for dinner but I'm scared, actually terrified that it will turn into something! We've been on 4 dates and I'm aware this is when things start to get less-casual.
Does anyone experience this? I hate my stomach, my thighs, everything. I'm so so so scared about this but I like her so much and I don't want to throw this relationship away
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at 270 there is a very small community of feeders that will enjoy your body, besides that group...you are gross and fat...
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I find anti-chaser people weird, if I had a niece subsection of people of would find me attractive no matter what I would love that, not complain that normal people don't like me instead.
The fact the /r/plussize complains about fetish chasers so much is funny
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agree...there are chasers for any group, literally any based on what ive seen on reddit and elsewhere...instead of just embracing it, they push the only people that want them away so they can continue complaining...
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