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I have guys that have expressed attraction to me. Handsome and fit guys. And a lot. But they add one thing that I find devastating. They add that they are into big girls. (90 comments) :marseywomanmoment2: :marseychonkerfoid:

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1hmrma7/like_big_girls/

								

								

I hate that. It's not the compliment they think it is, if they are even using it as a compliment. Why can't it just be said that they are attracted to ME? And are they attracted to me for me or because I'm fat? Like would they be into any fat girl? And I'd love to say it's only happened once or twice, but it's not. I feel like every guy who "likes" me feels obligated to say it. And it's men of different ages. Guys younger, my age, and recently a guy in his 70s. (I'm 50).

and recently a guy in his 70s. (I'm 50).

:#marseyxdorbit: !foidmoment

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I bet women get equally mad if you say you like them for being skinny.

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Maybe, but they're not going to post about it on Reddit.

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Not if they have an eating disorder

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