As the title suggest, years of hiding my body and feeling like i don't quite fit in with the girls my age had made me quite insecure about my femininity.
I was an outcast in highschool. i was very introverted and serious, and couldn't find a conversation topic to blend in with the other girls.
I'm 27 now and although I have made some very good friends i still find it so hard to shake the feeling that the reason some women (who don't know me at all, for example the gym receptionist) ignore me or are rude to me, is because of my weight.
This exclusion, combined with not being good at girly things like makeup, has made me feel less of a woman for as far as i can remember.
I was wondering if anyone can relate. I'm very aware that this is a "me" issue and feeling less womanly or insecure about your gender doesn't come with being overweight.
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