A very recent friend posted on social media that her biggest fear is to be fat. This is a person whom I met fairly recently and became friends with, just a few months back. I also know for a fact (from her sharing life experiences and old pictures) that she's never been fat in her life, or even slightly heavy. In fact, most people would consider her very thin, now and before.
Things like this make me wonder how the rest of the world perceives me. Is that what she thinks when she sees me? "I'd hate to look like you". I even started considering stop being friends with this person. I know this post is not about me, obviously, but it does say a lot about her values and what she thinks is important in a person. Am I overreacting here? My therapist says that is just her own thoughts that have nothing to do with me, but I don't think she truly understands the feeling, considering she is a thin woman too. I'm just trying to figure out what other people with similar experiences think about this.
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heh, not with the way I'd r*pe her
!male feminists
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massive load gang
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R*PE HER SOFTLY
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!thin a minute on the lips or a lifetime on the hips
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I thought we were about to see self-awareness from the first sentence...
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World #1 hiking champion. There's nothing better than blazing past other slower hikers and hearing the crowd applauding as you tear towards the finish line
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Neighbor, you broke her sofa with your fat butt.
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And feel like you, especially in the knees
And have your pre-diabetes
And have your lack of stamina
And.... every of thing you deny out of cope (but also people don't want to be fat and ugly too)
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Fat Redditors will never admit to a lack of stamina. They all seem to think they can outperform normal people (even though the only physical activity they ever mention is hiking)
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And hiking is taking the stairs up 2 floors when the elevator is broken
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They get chafing between the thighs too. Wouldn't that be like having a burn that never heals?
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And the fat developing in between your organs because it ran out of space
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I just don't understand what they think the upsides to being this fat are. Sure, a little extra meat on the bone isn't the end of the world, but they have several buckets of meat too much.
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Lol they wish
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As she should be, and so should the ham planet posting this but some people are just meant to be genetic dead-ends
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https://old.reddit.com/r/aww/comments/i9m7oj/hitting_the_right_spot/
Look at that arm.
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1hxzsbl/friend_is_scared_of_being_fat/:
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