Hi all! I'm a 24F and I've never had any of my partners make me orgasm. None of them are aware of this since I've faked it. For starters I'm extremely self conscious about my body…I'm a bigger woman who doesn't find herself attractive/sexually appealing. I have a hard time letting go and allowing myself to enjoy the moment since I'm constantly worried about the way I look. Yes , I am in therapy.
The men I've been with in the past have all reassured me that they found me attractive and but I didn't believe them. I've tried so hard to enjoy s*x but it just doesn't feel pleasurable for me.
Currently I'm coming out of a two year dry spell where I've become best friends with my vibrator. With that being said I'm worried that I won't be able to enjoy s*x now that I'm so accustomed to orgasming one way. I met a new man who's been extremely reassuring and etc but I can't bring myself to have s*x with him since I only have negative experiences attached to s*x due to the lack of orgasms. I'm not sure what to do for how to even approach this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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