Hambeast thinks that her husband might have been secretly stuffing her due to his fatty fetish.

This sounds so wrong on so many levels. You should be very concerned about your safety in this sort of relationship. This is a form of sexual sadism or masochism (or both) but going down the root of psychology, these are mental health issues accepted in the name of fetishes and subcultures. In fact, they're very harmful. You might need to consider putting some distance between you and him, you're clearly not a willing participant or consented to his deviation.

"According to The Routledge Companion to Sociologist Abigail C. Saguy has proposed that by objectifying women's weight, they are reinforcing the cultural importance of women's weight to their physical appearance, therefore also reinforcing gender inequality."

LMFAOOO