So, I'm somewhat active on NSFW Reddit, and I'm a big fan of the sub Reddit on my SFW account. Today I had an interesting experience. I was feeling some type of way and posted a personal ad. Obviously, you're not allowed to post pictures there. I describe myself as a curvy brunette. Maybe I should've used the word plus size. I'm about a size 16, and my size has never been an issue in real world dating.

However, just now I had a guy say that curves are fine, but I'm a bit chubbier than he's used to. Obviously, I know what I look like, and I don't have to be everyone's type. The thing that offended me the most was that instead of ending it there he said that we could still chat.

I asked him why he would want that if he didn't like me physically. He said that I could still "please" his mind and that was incredibly rare. I guess this is why we post full body pictures on dating apps. However, I can't help but wonder whether some of this is just internalized fat phobia like that it's not OK to like a plus size woman. I've had similar experiences with men who have expressed their attraction to me, but then they advised me to go to the gym or something like that.

Anyway, this experience has made me so much more empathetic to the issues that plus size women face in dating. I'm sure that men don't go out with me, because they don't see me as attractive. However, I've never experienced anything this blatant until I came to Reddit. Most guys are great, but ugh! It almost feels like your body is something that they are entitled to, and you must make it nice for them. Anyway, what do you guys think? Has anybody had any interesting experiences with online dating/NSFW fun?

!foidmoment

Don't ride next to each other if you want to go slow then lmao

I wish you weren't so fricking fat.

https://old.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/1glpjbs/comment/lvxgr0d/?context=8

That is the post

Oompa loompa is my favorite slur

https://old.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/1gj8fhr/comment/lvbndzv/?context=8

incels

https://www.newsweek.com/reeses-peanut-butter-cups-viral-1978566

https://www.mensjournal.com/news/deconstructed-reeses-peanut-butter-cup

Woman Can't Believe What's Inside Pack of Reese's, Then She Opens Four More

"I figured it was a one-off, so I bite into the next one. Nope, no peanut butter. Well, there's no way I could get three in a row... right?" humorously recounting her quest through all five cups, each solid chocolate, "without a trace of peanut butter," she told Newsweek.

"I just wanted that hit of PB," she explained, "but they have all come up solid chocolate bricks. I despair a little bit."

I can sense the desperation growing with every bite in this picture," said one user.

"I bought a box of 48 tampons with no cotton once. That was fun lol," said another user.

Hershey's Turns Viral Incident Into a Limited-Edition 'Deconstructed' Reese's Peanut Butter Cup

The Hershey Company, which owns Reese's, clarified the mixup by sending the poster a coupon. But /u/dewkitt presumably isn't seeing any residual payments from the idea they helped to hatch.

When they're available, the Deconstructed Peanut Butter Cup Kit costs $22.99 apiece. The Hershey's Store is offering 20 percent off all Reese's products through Nov. 6, so now's the time to grab this year's stocking stuffers.

The disrespect is crazy… please don’t do this pic.twitter.com/2lzxDqI4Yi

— non aesthetic things (@PicturesFoIder) November 2, 2024

I was at my aunts house with my whole family and I sat in a wooden rocking chair for not even 5 minutes and one of the rocking parts broke where there was a knot.

Apparently it was a chair found on the side of the road but I was so embarrassed and I can't stop thinking about it…

Edit: thank you everyone for the very kind words, it really has helped me feel better.

Thankfully only the rocker part broke with the knot in it and the rest stay intact, so I'm blaming the chair and moving on!

!foidmoment

>I'm soooo tired of men on dating apps hitting me up on some weird shit. I'm tired of men calling me a BBW. I'm tired of men telling me that they've always wanted to hookup with a fat girl. I'm tired of men telling me that they only like big girls. I'm tired of those same men throwing my weight in my face or making me feel uncomfortable with the amount that they talk about me being fat. I'm tired of being called nicknames like big mama and fluffy marshmallow (yes, you read that correctly. wtf), and so on.

>I'm so tired and annoyed and I just wanted to be treated like a normal human being.

!foidmoment

I actually do accept trans people, but you should have to expect to put into the effort to be hot instead of crying that it's unfair you aren't automatically considered it, fricking dumbass redditors.

https://old.reddit.com/r/egg_irl/comments/1gdv09x/egg_irl/

https://archive.li/WQ0DC

The article in question

Evidence of discrimination against fat people is widespread. In Sweden and Mexico, where including a photograph with a cv is common, researchers manipulated images to make identical fictitious job applicants seem fatter or obese. They found that they were significantly less likely to be offered interviews. Petter Lundborg of Lund University and John Cawley of Cornell University have compared the wages of thin and fat women, adjusted for education, experience and other factors, in Europe and America respectively, and found that women with obese bmis earn around 10% less than their peers.

"Ozempic has won, body positivity has lost. And I want no part of it," lamented Rachel Pick, a writer, in the Guardian.

Holy fattie

https://theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/08/ozempic-weight-loss-body-positivity

All this is to say I realized some time ago that I would never, ever be thin: I am simply not built that way. This realization, plus everything we already know about the pitfalls of diet culture, had made any attempt to lose weight seem both futile and like a good way to make me hate myself. So until last year, I had never even tried. My weight crept up, and up, and up. Finally, after a physical in late 2021, my blood sugar came up right on the border of the prediabetic range. It was clear: I had been playing with house money up to this point, but now, at 34, youth was no longer on my side.

!ifrickinglovescience !medicine !nooticers