I can't believe there's talk about no fault divorce going away in the fricking U.S. : TwoXChromosomes
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There is no fricking point in getting married if they remove no fault divorce. So, instead of trying to control women, they are fricking really telling them not to get married.
Do they think no one got married before no-fault divorce which has only been a fricking thing since the fricking 80s, b-word?
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Isn't she undermining her argument by her two divorces, though? Both of them were for fault - the first husband was (allegedly) abusive, the second husband cheated. This isn't "no fault" divorce.
The whole idea of no-fault divorce was to allow people in abusive marriages to get out fast, since the abusive partner could just refuse to grant the divorce. It was also done to speed up the process where both parties agreed they wanted to end the marriage, but there weren't grounds such as cruelty or adultery.
But like everything else, it became too easy for one person to decide "I'm tired of being married, I want out" and to get divorced even if the other party wanted to work on staying married. So changes to no-fault divorce to correct abuses seem reasonable.
And yeah, if you're going into marriage with the decision firmly in mind "I can leave and get divorced whenever I want", then that's not much of a marriage and you might as well not bother.
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There is no at fault divorce for "abuse" and only 3 or 4 states have it for infidelity, though it might affect asset distribution in a couple more.
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seems r-slurred to force them to stay together
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If you arent ready to get married, dont fricking get married
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Marriage is such a personal thing though. Why do other people get to decide legally how committed you have to be to your spouse?
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It's definitely personal ... when you swear to god and your entire culture you will be together with one specific other person until one of you fricking dies.
Whoever wants a divorce should be thrown in jail for FRAUD at their wedding
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This is just the legal fiction of "marriage". They should reduce administrative burdens. Making heathens follow a song and dance won't improve their morality. Maybe if they renamed it people would care less. Rightoids seem to think that making unhappy people stay together won't result in even more social groomercord, you can't rewind the clock.
I know I can get married once and only once in the Church, and that's the only true marriage
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(Christ)cuck mindset
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Here is the deal, you value marriage more than the freedom to escape a bad situation.
I value freedom to escape a bad situation more than marriage.
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maybe pick a better wife, r-slur
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Differences of experiences kills the rightoid
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Yes that's a good thing r-slur
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singleton mindset
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The easiest solution would be to leave that choice to the husboid.
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