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:marseytradraging:I can't believe there's talk about no fault divorce going away in the fricking U.S. : TwoXChromosomes

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There is no fricking point in getting married if they remove no fault divorce. So, instead of trying to control women, they are fricking really telling them not to get married.

Do they think no one got married before no-fault divorce which has only been a fricking thing since the fricking 80s, b-word?

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this lady on her 2nd divorce and already concerned about how law changes are going to impact her future divorces

women, not even once

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imagine being the 3rd to wife her up

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b-word collecting divorces like they infinity stones

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You r-slurs need to start clicking on post histories before debating here.

I guess I should explain that I have CPTSD, POTS, ME/CFS, hEDS, MCAS, some general anxiety issues, and suspected autism. The big risks I'm taking here are with POTS, ME/CFS, and hEDS. POTS could make me pass out suddenly at any time but especially during standing, walking, or jogging. With ME/CFS I have to be super careful while budgeting my energy because if I overdo it I'll get post exertional malaise and get sick for 2-6 days. With hEDS, I need to make sure I don't hurt myself as I can dislocate things easily

:marseyschizotwitch#: :marseyfoidretard#:

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How is that different from other 2x posters?

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>POTS

It must be so hard living with just plain old telephone service. My heart goes out to her.

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Id kill for a pots line. I'm trying to get a modem to work over my voip line and it's hard.

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It's a blessing that tattoos and terms for these diseases exist. Our grandfathers had to work 10x harder then us to figure out if a wife was quality material

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Our grandfathers could slap the white woman syndrome out of them if they caught it tho. It's a give and take.

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>General anxiety

we can tell, b-word got cognitive distortions the size of planets

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I overdo it I'll get post exertional malaise

YOU MEAN YOU GET FKN TIRED??

:#marseyxd: no way lmao

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lmao she got ALL the munchie diseases

wait wait no gastroparesis

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Ehler-Danlos is a meme, all the foids I know that have it are :marseychonker: and complain that that's why their knees hurt

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I think you're getting the name confused. Ehlers-Danlos is a visible condition where people have super stretchy skin, among other symptoms.

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Most people who say they have it are lying

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Pull their skin to check

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No, he's right. There's multiple types and it is indeed one of the ones that women commonly fake having

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:#directlypointingsoyjak:

I ONCE MADE A POST ABOUT THIS GUY!!!

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Isn't she undermining her argument by her two divorces, though? Both of them were for fault - the first husband was (allegedly) abusive, the second husband cheated. This isn't "no fault" divorce.

The whole idea of no-fault divorce was to allow people in abusive marriages to get out fast, since the abusive partner could just refuse to grant the divorce. It was also done to speed up the process where both parties agreed they wanted to end the marriage, but there weren't grounds such as cruelty or adultery.

But like everything else, it became too easy for one person to decide "I'm tired of being married, I want out" and to get divorced even if the other party wanted to work on staying married. So changes to no-fault divorce to correct abuses seem reasonable.

And yeah, if you're going into marriage with the decision firmly in mind "I can leave and get divorced whenever I want", then that's not much of a marriage and you might as well not bother.

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oh shit she replied! !commenters !dramatards give me a reply!

How many times do I have to explain this? Just because I had grounds for a no fault divorce doesn't mean I had to actually do a no fault divorce to get divorced. I chose the no fault divorce option because of what you stated, it's easier and faster.

Imagine for a moment that you were one of my husbands. If I came to you and said "Hey, we can do this the hard way and I can do a fault divorce and take you for everything you have OR you can agree to do a no fault divorce with me and we can split things equally and come to an agreement ourselves, thus saving us both time and money" which option are you going to pick? Because trust me when I say, if these men had the option to trap me in the marriage they probably would have. Neither of them wanted the divorce. They were getting everything they wanted while I was depressed and exploited. But my exes aren't idiots! They know a good deal when it's offered so they took the no fault divorce option.

Also you can use allegedly all you want but at the end of the day I don't have to provide people with reddit proof because my ability to divorce exactly how I wanted to proves that my exes were guilty and that I have proof. In fact, I have a crap ton of it. I'm not going to air my ex husbands' dirty laundry on the Internet for everyone to see because that is acting in bad faith and I am not a vindictive person. I don't need their names and reputations smeared to feel good about my decision to divorce them.

And heck, they have amendments about no fault divorces all the time. That's why there's a waiting period in my state. When there's children involved there's also mandatory classes you have to attend before you can get divorced. We aren't arguing that people consider divorce as something easy to do, we are arguing that abolishing no fault divorce entirely is bad, and it is!

When I got married I got married religiously where the promises were we would be monogamous and take care of each other and remain committed for eternity, even into the afterlife, as long as these promises were kept. My exes DID NOT keep those promises. I am well within my rights to say this is not what I agreed to and back out.

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my ability to divorce exactly how I wanted to proves that my exes were guilty

I'm gonna overdose on second hand cope

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I'm not going to air my ex husbands' dirty laundry on the Internet for everyone to see because that is acting in bad faith

:marseywhat:

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Lmao she ain't got shit on him.

She's on the verge of a copium overdose.

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to get divorced even if the other party wanted to work on staying married. So changes to no-fault divorce to correct abuses seem reasonable.

seems r-slurred to force them to stay together

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If you arent ready to get married, dont fricking get married

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Marriage is such a personal thing though. Why do other people get to decide legally how committed you have to be to your spouse?

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It's definitely personal ... when you swear to god and your entire culture you will be together with one specific other person until one of you fricking dies.

Whoever wants a divorce should be thrown in jail for FRAUD at their wedding

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This is just the legal fiction of "marriage". They should reduce administrative burdens. Making heathens follow a song and dance won't improve their morality. Maybe if they renamed it people would care less. Rightoids seem to think that making unhappy people stay together won't result in even more social groomercord, you can't rewind the clock.

I know I can get married once and only once in the Church, and that's the only true marriage

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(Christ)cuck mindset

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>Both of them were for fault

There is no at fault divorce for "abuse" and only 3 or 4 states have it for infidelity, though it might affect asset distribution in a couple more.

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Here is the deal, you value marriage more than the freedom to escape a bad situation.

I value freedom to escape a bad situation more than marriage.

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maybe pick a better wife, r-slur

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Differences of experiences kills the rightoid

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But like everything else, it became too easy for one person to decide "I'm tired of being married, I want out" and to get divorced even if the other party wanted to work on staying married.

Yes that's a good thing r-slur

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singleton mindset

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The easiest solution would be to leave that choice to the husboid.

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Even in a no fault divorce their is still child support , alimony, and the splitting of assets.

Foids just want to punish men for the L's they took. Tough shit. The government doesn't care because the government shouldn't be in anyone's personal life except when kids are involved

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>The government doesn't care because the government shouldn't be in anyone's personal life except when kids are involved

Removing no-fault divorce puts judges in the business of figuring out dumb couples' domestic shit.

>omg she threw out my vintage hentai

>he threw up at my sister's wedding

:#marseynoyoutalking:

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thanks im depressed now

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that was a fricking couple whosr biggest asset was their fricking beenie baby collection iirc

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Removing no-fault divorce puts judges in the business of figuring out dumb couples' domestic shit.

And that's good, because it's the more dramatic option

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which is VERY pro-drama btw

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Foids always say to dump men if they hesitate about marriage but still want the benefit of having your hard earned money and assets after divorce. They don't care about "till death do us part." Never get married, bros, no matter how much they try pressure you or if they give you an ultimatum.

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>The government doesn't care because the government shouldn't be in anyone's personal life except when kids are involved

but when i smoke crack in my own home on my own time its a problem

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Reikita was snorting coke with his kids in the house. He deserved it

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thats really not that bad tho

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Please don't reproduce

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snorting lines off the table isnt any different from granny nodding off on the couch, mom smoking in the house, or dad coming home drunk

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Cope

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He's gonna need lots of cope for those charges

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my wife got her pension and I got the crypto

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there's no point in getting married if i can't get divorced at any time and for any reason without question :hmph:

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>asking foids to think ahead about the consequences of their actions

:#marseyishygddt:

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They're literally thinking ahead by saying stop trying too limit @Grue's ability too make future choices smh

@Grue stand with Israel

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ATTENTION :#siren:

:#marseysing: THIS USER IS A MAN WITH A PEEPEE PRETENDING TO BE A WOMAN (female) ONLINE FOR ATTENTION :#marseymegaphone:

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I get plenty of attention being myself :marseyembrace:

@Grue stand with israel

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>he was abusive in every way, emotionally, financially, sexually, physically, etc

where do :marseyfoidretard: manage to find these winners, they can't be a very large % of the total population.

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Unfortunately, this isn't chudrama, so I can't answer this question.

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The culture war is a pressure cooker, some neighbors are going to pop, welcome to Denpamerica

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They are passing and protecting child marriage in GOP states.

Holy smokes I didn't know that. Could you link some articles about that? I want to show my partner

Tons of comments in reply, finally one link lower down about a bipartisan bill trying to be passed in Missouri to raise it from 16 to 18, and only some republicans are fighting against voting for it because they're trying to get the bill to include making it illegal to get an abortion under the age of 18 lmao

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Yeah i always hear this claim with no proof because apparanrly sixteen year olds can get married

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They raise this issue every few years to rile people up. It only serves to troll people of Reddit

Most of this comes from Dusty Deevers, a walking Baptist meme and literal r-slur from Oklahomo. He introduced the bill as the only sponsor and it will probably be pigeonholed and never get voted on.

It will go nowhere because I know plenty of rightoids that needed to get out of a marriage with a crazy b-word.

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A no fault divorce should mean no alimony/child support

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If you don't like abortion, don't get one. If you don't like divorce laws, don't get one :marseyindignantwoman:

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none of these posters were born with a bagina

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Frozen dinners are disgusting and for fatty r-slurs

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