It always upsets me a bit because I used to be a woman who enjoyed asking men out, and over time it left me feeling creepy, manly, ugly, and kind of stupid.
the complete lack of foid self awareness never ceases to amaze me
didnt read the thread but if what you said is true then it's def over unless she makes drastic changes lol. Although. Some m*les have no shame or limits to what they'll frick tbh.
I (34f) was divorced in February, and I've been alone ever since. This is the longest span of time I've been single since I got my first serious boyfriend at 17. I'm having a very, very difficult time adjusting.
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>woman goes insane after half a year of loneliness
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I'm alone all the time and it's killing me
I (34f) was divorced in February, and I've been alone ever since. This is the longest span of time I've been single since I got my first serious boyfriend at 17. I'm having a very, very difficult time adjusting.
I'm an only child, and my family isn't a great one. When I told my mom about my struggle with loneliness, she basically told me to shut up because she hates never being alone. So I tried talking to my best friend instead, and she basically said the same thing with gentler words.
My job is in field sales, so I work alone in my car all day, then come home to my house where I'm totally alone. Most work days I spend a combined total of 2 hours in the company of another person. I was never one to have a large friend circle, and sort of enjoyed making friends with the people my husband played board games with. Now that he's an ex-husband, I don't have the board gaming friends. None of them have reached out to ask how I'm doing, so I assume I've just lost those "friendships" in the divorce. My closest friend is a mom and a wife and I'm lucky ro see her once a month. I'm also lucky if she texts me back most days.
I have hobbies and things that I enjoy doing, but they're sort of "loner" hobbies. I go to 2 different book clubs every month now, but I'm struggling with the other 29 days in most months. I loved myself so much before I was married, and I don't even know who I am anymore. I desperately want to find love & romance, but I'm obviously not in a place where I'm okay to receive that.
How does one just become okay with crippling loneliness at 34 years old after having someone to talk to every day for over a decade?
Edit: Please don't message me asking if I need someone to talk to. I have enough long-distance friendships. I am missing real life human connection.
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>got rejected by three people and stopped trying
Oh come the frick on lady, if I stopped trying every time I get rejected by three women in a row I might never get laid. Three rejections is rookie numbers.
This is like when you go online and try to encourage men who are struggling with getting laid, and you ask them how often they are trying and they're like "well, I asked a woman out last year, uh I guess the year before that too".
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And being pleasant is the one needed to continue them, and where most foids trip up
Exactly. I keep seeing men on reddit saying things like "I don't know why women don't ask men out, I'd say yes to ANY woman that asked me out!". As if that isn't exactly fricking why we don't LMAO. No woman to be taken on half assed dates by someone who doesn't really find her attractive and only said yes because she asked first.
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the complete lack of foid self awareness never ceases to amaze me
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The manly feeling of being rejected constantly
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Guaranteed she puts zero effort into being attractive
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/u/folkgetaboutit it's over girl
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didnt read the thread but if what you said is true then it's def over unless she makes drastic changes lol. Although. Some m*les have no shame or limits to what they'll frick tbh.
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Holy !foidmoment the lack of selfawareness of this foid is amazing. This happens like daily with all guys
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It's like when Hitler comes back from the dead to do Holocaust 2.0 and threatens to kill 12 million Jews and 47 flamingos.
When people ask him why 47 flamingos he grins and says "heh. Nobidy ever asks about the Jews."
This but 47 ghosted women.
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Well yeah, we already know why Hitler hates jews. I don't know what he's got against flamingos tho
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have you seen the noses on those things
I wish they were real 🥺
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theyre too flamboyant for his tastes
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If you ask someone out and they don't get all bubbly and blushy, it's never going anywhere. How does she not know this?
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She gave up after experiencing being a man 3 times.
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Fellas, women could never live like we do
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Women would kill themselves if they were me
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Tbf I would kill myself if I were you
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Nah, they would fake trying it and would get more attention in 1 month than you will get in the rest of your life.
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I can't tell if that makes it a troll post or if women really do be that dumb
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Three days ago...
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lol shes been single for like 6months and she is fricking losing her mind
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The cycle of despair and cope continues.
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I'm alone all the time and it's killing me
I (34f) was divorced in February, and I've been alone ever since. This is the longest span of time I've been single since I got my first serious boyfriend at 17. I'm having a very, very difficult time adjusting.
I'm an only child, and my family isn't a great one. When I told my mom about my struggle with loneliness, she basically told me to shut up because she hates never being alone. So I tried talking to my best friend instead, and she basically said the same thing with gentler words.
My job is in field sales, so I work alone in my car all day, then come home to my house where I'm totally alone. Most work days I spend a combined total of 2 hours in the company of another person. I was never one to have a large friend circle, and sort of enjoyed making friends with the people my husband played board games with. Now that he's an ex-husband, I don't have the board gaming friends. None of them have reached out to ask how I'm doing, so I assume I've just lost those "friendships" in the divorce. My closest friend is a mom and a wife and I'm lucky ro see her once a month. I'm also lucky if she texts me back most days.
I have hobbies and things that I enjoy doing, but they're sort of "loner" hobbies. I go to 2 different book clubs every month now, but I'm struggling with the other 29 days in most months. I loved myself so much before I was married, and I don't even know who I am anymore. I desperately want to find love & romance, but I'm obviously not in a place where I'm okay to receive that.
How does one just become okay with crippling loneliness at 34 years old after having someone to talk to every day for over a decade?
Edit: Please don't message me asking if I need someone to talk to. I have enough long-distance friendships. I am missing real life human connection.
https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/1f8cj6m/im_alone_all_the_time_and_its_killing_me/
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This is one of the worst posts I have EVER seen. Delete it.
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Oh come the frick on lady, if I stopped trying every time I get rejected by three women in a row I might never get laid. Three rejections is rookie numbers.
This is like when you go online and try to encourage men who are struggling with getting laid, and you ask them how often they are trying and they're like "well, I asked a woman out last year, uh I guess the year before that too".
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It's me, but she said yes and we're still together.
You're all gonna make it bros
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Things have changed neighbor, I now know two incels who try constantly and they still can't get the box
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Why do you think they are not having success?
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They aren't busting fr
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Can you explain in 20th century English? I'm not up with the kids and their ways.
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Overweight, lazy, entitled (i.e. overweight)
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I've never asked a woman out but women have asked me out
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"When you successfully seduce a man, he thinks he seduced you." - @Downie
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Who the frick cares
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It lets the moid feel sexy while the foid knows she's sexy, everyone wins!
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actually based
being hot and almost-catchable are pretty much the two skills a woman needs to begin relationships, and they both have skill levels
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And being pleasant is the one needed to continue them, and where most foids trip up
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I'll refer future rejectees of mine to this comment if they ask why
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Active in /r/HL_Women_Only
Community rules don't say anything about s, might be a good reportmaxx opportunity
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welcome to being a man
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Snapshots:
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: I'm so lonely I'm going to kill myself
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cmon tell us
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