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JimieWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess.  25d ago (reddit.com) 262 thread views #315146

How to get over this guy who keeps giving me chlamydia? [no judgement pls, only post good advice]

https://old.reddit.com/r/limerence/comments/1gleh6x/cant_get_over_a_guy_that_used_me_for_years_and/ 

								

								

									
									
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I (22f) ment this guy back in 2023 and me and him been on and off being just f buddies. I rlly started to catch feelings for him and would think about him everyday like all day and i continue sleeping with him hoping that one day he would like me or see my worth . It's so bad sometimes. He was always so rude to me one over text but then in person he was fine with me then after he sleeps with me he gets disrespectful and ghosts til he wanted to use me again. We only hangout once when I first ment him then after that he told me he wasn't interested, ghosted me for a bit and then came back and said he wanted to just be frick buddies. He told me multiple times he didn't want me and only using me for s*x but I still couldn't let him go. He also gave me chlamydia before even tho he claims it was me and lied and told ppl I gave it to him but he been the only one I slept with In 2023 so it was definitely him giving it to me. Pls Don't judge me for continuing to sleep with him after that Ik I should've ended it but I couldn't get myself to😔. Then recently he cut me off rlly rudely again and I seen on his story of him with a girl, he never posted girls since I knew him so Ik this girl he actually likes and literally only knew her for a week and was always hanging out with her but he never once asked to hangout with me the past two years he only wanted to see me at night for s*x. it just hurts seeing him treat someone good knowing that he was so bad to me. For some reason I still can't get over him and I find myself always watching there stories and getting hurt over it. The two years I rlly lost myself I stop having interest in fitness, yoga and other stuff that help my mental health that I use to do daily which actually use to help me so much in 2022 and I haven't been doing anything but being sad in bed thinking about him, and would day dream about him alot . I hate how long I let myself get depressed over someone that never respected me and idk how to move . I can't even find myself any more and I want to be okay with moving on and not letting him back but my mind just won't let me and I hate it so much . Ik he's not good for me and that I should just block him but I can't get myself to keep him blocked I always unblock him to see who he's following and what he is posting it's like a addiction at this point. And I easily let him back and one time he told me it was entertaining on how bad he treats me but I still let him back. He made me so insecure with myself.Srry if this is long or dumb to not get over him but I rlly wished I can get help but can't rlly afford therapy and it would be embarrassing to tell someone that I'm struggling over a guy I'm not dating. I will try to add some ss in the comments of how he talked to me when he claims he didn't like my body ss from May then the next second he enjoyed my body ss from last month . But it doesn't rlly matter anymore since me and him currently don't talk.


									
								

							

							

								
									
								
							

							

								
	

							

						

						
						

							

								
							

						

					

					
						

							
							
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This could be avoided if xhe asked him a few questions at the start like "if i was a snail would you still date me?"

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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if i WERE a snail would you still date me?

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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WE HAVE ALREADY ESTABLISHED I WOULD R*PE YOU NO MATTER WHAT. I would wait for you to retreat into your shell then gock you WITH AUTHORITY.
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Did you know snails are hermaphrodites and have s*x by twisting their peepees together like a swizzle straw?
https://media.tenor.com/e4YKiPvtpKYAAAAx/hornbach-fr%C3%BChjahr.webp
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NO GOCK FOR YOU CREEP. I am genuinely disgusted by snails moreso now.
https://i.rdrama.net/images/17309833757228.webp

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Snakes are sexed but their mating looks kinda similar. Male snakes wrestle each other to determine who gets the gal since they're immune to their own type of venom (certain species like the African gaboon vipers have fangs long enough to puncture another snake's brain, but elapids like cobras have small fixed fangs that could not). Here's a short clip showing what I mean:
!animalposters I like snakes. :marseyautism:

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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When I was little learning about Adam and Eve at Bible school I misunderstood and thought Eve had fricked the snake.
Because why else would Adam and God get so pissed off at her, right???

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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According to schizo theory god got mad cause foids fricked aliens/angels and created giants/nephilim.
Etc
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Actual footage of me asking my gf why she keeps teleporting to the alien spaceship:

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I'm nice to you :marseycry: stop trolling my !Catholics faith, at minimum on my wall. I said I thought you'd be a good mom and I meant it, there are no other biofoids here I've said that to. If this is earnest:
Firstly, there is a level on which Genesis is written as a polemic against other ANE creation stories by its human author and this context aids rather than detracts from our understanding, as with calling the 1st century Jews the "Synagogue of Satan" in Revelation. More importantly, however, it tells us the undeniable truth of the fallen nature of mankind. The Catechism says this:
CCC 404 How did the sin of Adam become the sin of all his descendants? The whole human race is in Adam "as one body of one man".1 By this "unity of the human race" all men are implicated in Adam's sin, as all are implicated in Christ's justice. Still, the transmission of original sin is a mystery that we cannot fully understand. But we do know by Revelation that Adam had received original holiness and justice not for himself alone, but for all human nature. By yielding to the tempter, Adam and Eve committed a personal sin, but this sin affected the human nature that they would then transmit in a fallen state.2 It is a sin which will be transmitted by propagation to all mankind, that is, by the transmission of a human nature deprived of original holiness and justice. And that is why original sin is called "sin" only in an analogical sense: it is a sin "contracted" and not "committed" – a state and not an act.
With this in mind, the previous passages of the Catechism teach that it was not Eve alone:
The reality of sin
386 Sin is present in human history; any attempt to ignore it or to give this dark reality other names would be futile. To try to understand what sin is, one must first recognize the profound relation of man to God, for only in this relationship is the evil of sin unmasked in its true identity as humanity's rejection of God and opposition to him, even as it continues to weigh heavy on human life and history.
387 Only the light of divine Revelation clarifies the reality of sin and particularly of the sin committed at mankind's origins. Without the knowledge Revelation gives of God we cannot recognize sin clearly and are tempted to explain it as merely a developmental flaw, a psychological weakness, a mistake, or the necessary consequence of an inadequate social structure, etc. Only in the knowledge of God's plan for man can we grasp that sin is an abuse of the freedom that God gives to created persons so that they are capable of loving him and loving one another.
Original sin - an essential truth of the faith
388 With the progress of Revelation, the reality of sin is also illuminated. Although to some extent the People of God in the Old Testament had tried to understand the pathos of the human condition in the light of the history of the fall narrated in Genesis, they could not grasp this story's ultimate meaning, which is revealed only in the light of the death and Resurrection of Jesus Christ.261 We must know Christ as the source of grace in order to know Adam as the source of sin. the Spirit-Paraclete, sent by the risen Christ, came to "convict the world concerning sin",262 by revealing him who is its Redeemer.
389 The doctrine of original sin is, so to speak, the "reverse side" of the Good News that Jesus is the Saviour of all men, that all need salvation and that salvation is offered to all through Christ. the Church, which has the mind of Christ,263 knows very well that we cannot tamper with the revelation of original sin without undermining the mystery of Christ.
How to read the account of the fall
390 The account of the fall in Genesis 3 uses figurative language, but affirms a primeval event, a deed that took place at the beginning of the history of man.264 Revelation gives us the certainty of faith that the whole of human history is marked by the original fault freely committed by our first parents.265

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I'm not trolling, I really did think Eve sexed the snake. I didn't really understand what s*x was, but I knew it was bad to s*x someone other than your husband, and the snake had tricked Eve. It didn't make any sense that everyone was so mad about eating an apple, and the apple was a metaphor for "carnal knowledge" (that I still don't really know what that is) so I figured the snake tricked Eve into s-e-x.
But Sister Wendy would be very impressed with your fluency in the Catechism :marseyimmaculate:

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Well, carnal (meaning of the flesh) knowledge is a euphemism associated first with Eve and the Biblical tradition, it just wasn't with Satan:
Gen 4 1 Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, "I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord."
Eve's sin was pride, not lust or fornication. For a concise answer as to why I'd refer to the Summa, 3163:
I answer that many movements may concur towards one sin, and the character of sin attaches to that one in which inordinateness is first found. And it is evident that inordinateness is in the inward movement of the soul before being in the outward act of the body; since, as Augustine says (De Civ. Dei i, 18), the sanctity of the body is not forfeited so long as the sanctity of the soul remains. Also, among the inward movements, the appetite is moved towards the end before being moved towards that which is desired for the sake of the end; and consequently man's first sin was where it was possible for his appetite to be directed to an inordinate end. Now man was so appointed in the state of innocence, that there was no rebellion of the flesh against the spirit. Wherefore it was not possible for the first inordinateness in the human appetite to result from his coveting a sensible good, to which the concupiscence of the flesh tends against the order of reason. It remains therefore that the first inordinateness of the human appetite resulted from his coveting inordinately some spiritual good. Now he would not have coveted it inordinately, by desiring it according to his measure as established by the Divine rule. Hence it follows that man's first sin consisted in his coveting some spiritual good above his measure: and this pertains to pride. Therefore it is evident that man's first sin was pride.
Also, you keep doing the modern humanities meme of refusing to identify the serpent with Satan. Would you like me to address questions regarding Satan in the OT? For if there is a spirit engaged in a war for our souls, surely his first assault would be to convince us that we aren't responsible for our own evil :marseysatanworship2: and this is perhaps the most pervasive of all heresies today.
I have a longpost planned for the relationship between Judaism and !Christians that will be posted once election stuff dies down and am open to composing something on this as well. !Catholics if you guys actually read or care about my :marseylongpost2: please let me know what questions you think need addressing.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Probably shouldn't compliment people's potential as parents on here as a general rule until you see proof that they're somewhat caring, no?

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Wow, what a catty subtweet.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I don't doubt that you're caring, @Rad_juju. :@rad_jujupat: I've seen your kitten posts and trust that there truly is goodness within you. If there is a way wIthout angering you and in the nicest way possible I call to question if you sublimate your maternal instincts towards animals rather than seeking the higher (human, interpersonal, true gift of self sacrifice) good. If you ask an honest question of me you receive an honest answer and I mean you no ill, I pray for your family daily and have for at this point months.
O Mary, Mother of God and Our Spiritual Mother, the Mediatrix of All Graces and the Mother of the Church, you love us with your Immaculate Heart, and we love you with our fragile hearts. Hear our prayer for all women. We pray for devout and lax women, for strong and weak women, for married and single women, for mothers and virgins, for consecrated women, for housewives and women who work outside the home, for women who are students, for women in the military, for women who are Catholics and women who are non-practicing Catholics, for women who are not Catholics, for women who have abandoned the Catholic Church, for virtuous and sinful women, for women who are particularly tempted, for faithful and unfaithful women, for generous and ungenerous women, for women who have accepted the Gift of Life, for women who have aborted and women who have prevented conception, for women who dress modestly and those who do not, for wealthy and poor women, for young and old women, for women who are addicted, for healthy, sick and dying women, and for the souls of all women in Purgatory. O Woman, you who are the Model of women, keep all women close to your Immaculate Heart, and present them to the Most Sacred Heart of your Divine Son Jesus Christ, Who, with the Father and the Holy Spirit, is always Our Hope and the Source of our strength forever.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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That's actually remarkably similar to what humans do except for the whole being in a snake body thing.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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