@whatastory's comment on ':marseywomanmoment: we need to stop blaming womxn :marseyfoidr-slur: for marrying/having babies with bad scrotes :marseyfeminist:'

we need to stop blaming womxn :marseyfoidretard:

for marrying/having babies with bad scrotes :marseyfeminist:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1iy2x0t/just_a_rant_but_we_need_to_stop_blaming_women_for/

I'm incredibly fortunate in my own marriage, but that's what makes it all the more obvious to me that we have to stop blaming women for the behavior of the men in their lives, because there LITERALLY aren't enough good men to go around. If all women everywhere waited to have a relationship or baby with a genuinely great guy, like 75% of women would NEVER get married or have a child.

so just settle with whoever and get that bag queen! :marseynails:

I just see so many posts on here about men being trash partners/parents and so many of the comments, largely from women, are like "why would you have kids with him?" Or "why would you even marry a guy like that?" And I want to scream from the rooftops that it's because these women just want to find love and start a family but easily 75% of men are incredibly problematic partners so what else are the women supposed to do? Not ever have a partner? Not ever have any children? Just clump together Golden-Girls-style until they die? Especially when you consider that a lot of these men know how to fake being decent for at least the first few months of a relationship, it's absolutely no wonder why women fall victim to scumbags.

fr, he's gonna fake it so why shouldnt she?! :marseywitch2:

We need to do a whole lot better at not victim-blaming or shaming women for partnering with a bad guy. For many, many women, they just literally don't have any other choice, if they want some semblance of having a family.

womxn have no choice butt to choose :marseytrollgun: as they babydaddy because of the focal fact regarding the cisheteronormative neocolonialist patriarchy is

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

View entire discussion

whatastory a/s/l Necessity is the birthing person of invention. 8d ago #7850107

:turtoisebinocular#s:

17 Context

whatastory a/s/l Necessity is the birthing person of invention. whatastory 8d ago #7850154 Edited 8d ago

Alright, so let's go with 75%. What percentage of women, do you think, have already walked away from men or would be willing to? What percentage of women are perfectly happy to never have a relationship or children with men, for whatever their reason?

More would if we encouraged, supported and educated, just like anything else

Okay but like today, what percentage of women would happily "go their own way" and not try to find romance with men or be okay with not starting a family because they're either not interested or because they want to teach mankind a lesson? Just throw a number out there that you think could be accurate.

Why are you so obsessed with percentages??

Because my whole point is about percentages. If 75% of men aren't good partners, and only 10% of women are happy to not date/marry/have children with men, that leaves a heck of a lot of women who would rather settle with the best they can get than be alone. And I'm tired of people attacking those women who are faced with what, for them, is the better of two evils. Saying "well, women just shouldn't settle" is unreasonable, unhelpful, and just another form of victim-blaming.

Life isn't about percentages or black and white thinking. You need to do some maturing and I don't care how old you are. Also, psyops would say they aren't a psyop.

Why are you so obsessed with percentages?? :taylorlorenzcrying: