'It's completely fine to not be around [Trump voters] and to tell them why,' Yale University chief psychiatry resident Dr. Amanda Calhoun told MSNBC
With the holiday season approaching, a prominent mental health expert told MSNBC viewers that they should feel justified in cutting ties with relatives that voted for President-elect Donald Trump.
Yale University chief psychiatry resident Dr. Amanda Calhoun spoke to MSNBC host Joy Reid on Friday night about ways liberals who are devastated with Trump's re-election this week can cope with news, including separating from certain loved ones.
"So, if you are going into a situation where you have family members, where you have close friends who you know have voted in ways that are against you… it's completely fine to not be around those people and to tell them why," Calhoun told Reid.
The host prompted the expert's answer by discussing how the LGBTQ community and other minority groups have been feeling particularly vulnerable following Trump's election on early Wednesday morning.
Citing a recent report from progressive outlet, The 19th, Reid said, "Yeah, and we know that there's been a vast increase since the election – 700 percent increase in calls from LGBTQ youth to The Trevor Project, which offers phone, online chat, or text to people – 700 percent increase in calls, texts, and chats compared to recent weeks."
The host then asked how these people should be interacting with those they know – including family – that voted for Trump, who she accused of being against Americans' rights.
"But I wonder if also, are people challenged with the idea of, how do you interact with people who voted for this?"
She added, "If you are an LGBTQ person and you know someone in your family voted essentially against your rights, or you're a woman knowing, you know, that this man was calling people the b word. JD Vance was literally calling Kamala Harris 'the trash.' He said, 'We're going to take out the trash.' I know a lot of Black women were incredibly triggered by that."
Calhoun affirmed it's fine for those aggrieved by Trump's win to avoid Trump supporting family and friends, adding that they should tell them why.
"You know, to say, 'I have a problem with the way that you voted because it went against my very livelihood, and I'm not going to be around you this holiday. I need to take some space for me.'"
Calhoun continued, noting that it is important, and even "essential" for people to establish boundaries with family members for their own sanity.
"I think you should very much be entitled to do so, and I think it may be essential for your mental health."
Do liberals and leftists hate you, your families, and humanity itself? Studies say yes.
Good morning !chuds
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It's essential to protect yourself from dangerous riggers who helped Trump steal this election.
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@HailVictory1776 but Jimie said riggers
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Those fricking riggers.
Stealing elections and shit. Frick those riggers at jan6. Riggers and rigger culture is inferior.
FRICK RIGGERS!
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!nooticers what did he mean by this?
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What up my riggas
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There could be riggers here, she thought
The cool night air felt good against her bare forehead, the $10 bottle of wine pulsing through here thick, powerful veins.
With the mainstream media you can do anything you want
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I would ask what this means, but I decided to go no contact with all burgers after they voted drumpf
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It's from the Nature article I linked at the bottom.
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lot of gems in this paper
Rocks aside, how do you see yourself mapping on to this? I usually think of Catholics as more conservative, but this description of the liberal group sounds similar to ideas you've defended
Does their universal/parochial distinction capture that worldview well?
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Catholic social teaching is a mix of conservative and liberal, in the American paradigm we are pariahs to the left for belonging to a white-coded religion (I can pull quotes from Kamala etc if you want, they genuinely loathe Christians) and being pro-life. Unless a WW3 level crisis occurred that could rival the threat to human life presented by modern left-liberals or the parties changed I will in all likelihood either abstain or vote Republican for the rest of my life.
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Catholics are not pro-open borders or pro-immigration per se, we are pro-immigrant and similarly historically pro-labor. In line with a point I made last week about how we view concepts like "sacrifice" - the very idea of weakness and victimhood in the western imagination is the Christian worldview. Pagans and most cultures around the world abhorred the weak and viewed it as a moral failing, sign of disfavor from the gods, and/or a justification for all varieties of abuse and domination. A rightly ordered Christian would seek to engage politically to protect the rights of the downtrodden rather than, y'know, just frickin' killing them. @QuadNarca
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But I thought you were gonna vote Democrat.
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I left the presidential ticket blank and just voted for local stuff.
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I always knew we were on the same wavelength.
I'm hoping that Democrats will see this and understand how disgusted we are by both choices and try to appeal to disaffected voters next time around. But I just keep seeing the same voices (Teixeira, Axelrod, Carville, even fricking Van Jones) screaming that you have to change if you want to win. And nobody in the Dem leadership will even entertain the thought.
When I said that if this happened in Korea people would be jumping off cliffs that wasn't hyperbole. But we got a two-tier justice system here. Some bipoc commits a violent crime and he's fricked for life. Every other time somebody ever does anything wrong, there's no accountability. Just open the phone app that whispers to you about girl power, go to your therapist who tells you everyone else is wrong.
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@Nightcrawler IS A MAGA CHUD
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Please do
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!Catholics are generally more conservative in the U.S. but in many places are very liberal instead. Because it's a universal church it has quite a wide range of thoughts and beliefs when it comes to policies and politics
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in the US we usually are split lib/con on most surveys ive seen but its really only due to a lot of people saying "oh yeah im catholic i guess" when asked for the survey. Saw one broken down by how often people go to mass and people who go to mass >1 time per month were like 90% con with the proportion increasing the more often they went to mass.
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In Korea a lot of them are pinkos.
(That's me being suspicious, not some racist joke about their eyes.)
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1. me
2. my bitches
3. everyone else
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Nat Comm is basically a garbage dump for Chinese academics to publish in.
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Counterpoint: I will cite them when they agree with my preconceived biases and ignore them when they contradict them.
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Based.
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um akshually misleading "inanimate objects" is only sector
15 - all natural things in the universe including inert entities such as rocks
and 16 - all things in existence
whereas the heat sig is clearly centered on rings
13 - all animals in the universe, including alien lifeforms
14 - all living things in the universe including plants and trees
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What if I like everything except trees
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Maybe if you people didn't take a century just to do introductions, you could make some friends
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Scientists hate him! Click here to learn how one guy BTFO'd the entire field of sociology with this one simple trick!
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That's called veganism.
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You've been playing Factorio too, haven't you?
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As I understand it it's where your moral allocation stops. Or more like with 100 empathy points how much do you spend on all these rings. Conservatives spend most on the inner rings and Liberals spread their rings out further leaving less for the inner rings. Doesn't necessarily mean they hate their family, after all both a conservative and liberal could spend 25 points on their immediate family, but it does mean (at least in rhetoric) the weight placed on the closest rings levels off hard, i.e. after those 25 points of immediate family the conservative would spend 20 on their extended family and 15 on friends while the liberal might spend 5 on extended family and 5 on friends.
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Its an r-slured way to display r-slurred data only done like this so it looks cool and meaningful
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It's essential for skinny white boys to cut off filipino ladyboys
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Impossible
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Jesus Christ you people are embarrassing.
This is like 10-year old "he has a girlfriend!" multiplied by incel seethe.
You ever wonder if maybe you'd do better with girls if you put you're energy into that?
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So long as it makes him mad, it's all in good fun. And it certainly does considering he CSS blocked me.
Also, biggest yellow fever neighbor on rDrama is the only one who comes to yellow chasers defense
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Do you actually think that all my gimmicks are meant to be taken seriously?
Let me guess, you're one of those people who think Pizzashill really is stocking shelves.
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There's only so much you ironically thirst post
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Do tell. Show me the last 5 "thirst posts" I've made and what race they are, since you keep such close track of me.
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Any post mentioning Asia is tantamount to thirsting 🗣🗣🗣
https://rdrama.net/search/comments?q=Author%3Aredactor0+korean
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Isn't it usually fat old white men going for the ladyboys?
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OP is skinny
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Not for much longer, if he keeps eating Filipino """food""".
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You'll have to pry the filipino ladyboys and femboys off my cold dead peepee
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trump voters are in a cult, best to cut them off even if they are family because nazis at a table and the paradox of tolerance as you know
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You are at a table with 11 Democrats and a trump voter sits down, now you are at a table with 12 Republicans
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Waiting for the highly-upmarseyd article about how it's immoral or problematic to let your Drumph supporter parents pay partially or in full for any of your bills as a young adult
That would be taking money from a heckin' nazi after all
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No, that's fine, you're taking money from a Nazi and now a non-Nazi, Right Side of History person has it. Everything is justified by them being evil, you see.
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Its essential for jews to cut off tip of the peepee
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@sneedman @SneedmansLostForeskin discuss
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At least mark it NSFW
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I dont know how
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Click the ellipsis dots at the end of your comment and it's in the drop down.
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I dosent do anything.
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Looks deformed, but at least the colour is natural and not swollen dark like so many PPPics.
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True, very true
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I wouldnt really want to be connected to a trumptard lol.
Either theyre stupid or evil, both of which mean i dont want them in my life.
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You did see that the context here was family, right? Really bad take.
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Why would i want stupid or evil family members in my life lol.
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that aint right
there was a study that made a heatmap showed clear indicators between left and right, where the left cares about external things like small animals and the environment (outside rings) while right wing cares about their community and family (inside rings closer to themselves)
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Stupid is as stupid does and it is a stupid man that disowns his family over their political opinions.
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"Political opinions" matter lol. If people have political opinons that are stupid, and they vote in a way that makes my quality of life lower - like for example wanting consumer goods to cost more, it is justified to not want them in my life.
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You live in a deep blue state, nothing you or anyone you know votes for has any sway on what will occur.
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"Why yes, we did help put a mentally disabled anti-vaxxer that literally had brain worms in charge of public health, but theyre just political opinions bro."
Tariffs will increase prices nationally.
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really?? come on now
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Oh no the 'b word'
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They're constantly calling black men trash with no irony so it's too real for them
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when trump said he was going to drain the swamp, he was calling black women swamp creatures
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Are liberals wrong, though? Have you ever met a human?
Now do left-wing Asians living in Asia.
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Their only favorable outgroup bias is towards wypipo.
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I just hope that people just shut the frick up and not care about who won and who lost for one measly holiday season.
Yeah, sure, America/the West has been saved/cursed/etc...and you got a whole cycle to yap yap yap about it...but for God's sake, can it really hurt to forget all about that and at least pretend you enjoy the presence of others for even a single week, even through the disagreements?
Frankly, I find that destroying entire relationships solely (and even if it's the "breaking point" for an already-strained one) because you differ by a single bubble you wrote on a piece of paper in a single day of a single month is ridiculous, regardless of the beliefs you and the other(s) will hold !grillers
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no need to celebrate holidays that bring you out of your ideological bubble even a little bit if you label the holidays problematic
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"Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person's enemies will be those of his own household."
Matthew 10:34-36
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Matthew 10:34-36
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Frick this non KJV bullshit
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Fake title. Also i knew this person irl
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Wordy to include and she has responsibility in her role, whatever.
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She's not the chief of residents, that's the attending. Chief resident is basically a popularity contest.
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She's in a position of responsibility over other doctors. I have a number in my family, stop nitpicking me you stupid frickin NAGGERS. The only thing worse than a rigger is a nagger.
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@HailVictory1776 keep an eye on him
I don't think he's gonna last much longer smdh
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Like I said, it's a popularity contest where you get to pick who gets vacations.
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I might send you on a vacation real quick if you keep this up!
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That's responsible, to tell millions of Americans with unique situations that it's okay to cut family ties based on a warped popularity contest.
Guess this will drum up the anti anxiety/depression medication business. Very cool.
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Wow people that believe in communism and magic dirt theory are really crazy and depressed what an absolute shocker
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I think it's safe to say that post 2000s liberalism is a mental disorder that we have to pretend doesn't exist
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Holy frick ivy leagues are a joke now. You can literally get in by chopping your peepee off.
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Reinstating the eunuch caste on a voluntary basis is a based work of genius tbh
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Cut out your parents and siblings and cut in big pharma to medicate your pain and problems away. Your local therapists can guide you on the heavily drugged path thats right for you.
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I'll have the family and also the drugs
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This is why Trump won
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Cavemen happy, smart humans anguished. Shocking
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Why should I care?
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is it really that big of a deal if someone has a different political opinion??
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Already done! Enjoy the nursing home dad
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There will be people who say to you, "You are out of your lane." They are burdened by only having the capacity to see what has always been instead of what can be. But don't let that burden you.
Snapshots:
https://www.foxnews.com/media/psychiatrist-says-essential-liberals-set-boundaries-trump-voting-loved-ones-during-holidays:
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Studies say yes:
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