This woman won't be changing shit, there's no way
Steysha, Nashville TN, 27
Self-rated 7/10
Personal Life:
Vacationaholic
"I actually have two trips coming up but after that I'm done" timestamp
Flying to Houston, then New York
Around 30 minutes in she mentions that she has a daughter timestamp
Father mentioned soon after but that's a lot of vacations to be taking with a kid
Doesn't live there, has his own house, comes over sometimes?
Father pays for most of the groceries?
Career:
Compliance Analyst
Software company
8 months
prior did the same thing at a different company
84'000 a year (including 4k guaranteed bonuses)
Work from home
Contributing 6% matched
Debts/Expenses:
Discussion about her budgeting timestamp
Car Mazda CX-5 $18'818:
Bought in 2021,
46'000 miles
Might be down to 17k now
6% interest
"I didn't put anything down"
482 minimum payment
Ally Loan 10'537
$152 payment, 10% interest
Had to get a new HVAC
- Didn't price shop
Had no emergency fund
Credit Card (No balances?):
Lots of eating out
Lots of Vape CBD stuff, about $50 a pop
Student Loans 34'000
All federal
South College
- Degree in Health Science
"I haven't paid anything... ever"
- Graduated post-pandemic
She didn't ever think about the minimum payment for it
- "400? That's a lot" timestamp
House 123k (deets in savings section)
Thinks $400 a month in gas
Savings/Retirement:
401k for current job
- 5'000
Has taken out her 401k multiple times timestamp
"I regret it now but..."
Did it in both 2020 and 2019
Used some of it when she purchased a house
- IRA lets you withdraw penalty free, 401k does not (Caleb confuses this when talking about it and corrects himself later)
House was 130k
45 minutes outside of Nashville
Put down 3%
Remaining balance on house is at around a 123k balance, refinanced it in 2020
Bought it in 2018?
Was 6% now 3%
$1049 payment on the house
Estimate 242k zillow estimate on the price
Checking
- didn't catch the balance if it was mentioned
Savings - $3'012
- "So I do have an emergency fund timestamp
Budgeting:
- Umm... Can you add a going out to eat budget timestamp
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!codecels What is a Compliance Analyst?
!nooticers A few things to notice here.
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Government mandated bureaucrat
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Our jannies.
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I assume a compliance analyst is a dev adjacent role for verifying that WCAG accessibility is met, and possibly privacy, GDPR, security requirements as well.
It would be like legal meets QA meets full stack.
I’ve done projects in that area, but it was never my job. I’d do it as a consultant bc it’s EZ PZ once you understand what you are auditing for.
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She has a Healthcare degree, she's not analyzing any frameworks lol
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It's probably the same thing, except she's checking for privacy and healthcare regulation shit.
tl;dr she's a tester.
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Compliance analysts often make sure that code is in compliance with things like government regulations or internal company security policies. They're part of the QA/QC (quality assurance/quality control) process. It's usually a pretty important job
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No someone that did it. It was mainly sitting in meetings, and doing basic excel work from time to time. Actual decision were made above her head. Paid 120k/year and was just basic office work.
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It’s says she has a healthcare degree so I assume she clicks “yes” on tickets saying they’re compliant w/r/t the various data requirement laws.
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I have no clue, but for sure they are a pain in the butt and aim to frick up the way you work by adding meaningless meetings and requirements.
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If you ask a Compliance Analyst they also won't be able to tell you
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Someone that makes sure your compliance plan is working as intented
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It’s truly incredible to me you can fumble $84k single person income. Like jfc.
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And living in a house that only cost $123k!
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400+ a month for a car worth less than 20k is insane to me
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Not too outrageous if she's on a 36/48 month loan. Better than the idiots getting 72 or even 84 month loans.
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What are the odds she's actually on a 36/48 month loan though? The standard idiots get roped into is 5-7 years. Caleb needs to be asking these questions
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Not gonna go back to look for the time stamp but he does ask - shes on a 72 month loan
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Thanks, that's what i figured. So she's basically paying for a Lexus while driving an 18k car. What a disaster
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Rates are pretty butt rn
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zoz
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This is very difficult for me to watch and im not sure why exactly but i've paused the video 6 times out of anxiety.
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She'd be in a great situation if she was capable of living a year or two not engaging in frivolous, unnecessary spending, but because she's a we all know that's not going to happen. 84k a year plus whatever child support she can wring from a baby daddy would be plenty to live off of, pay off her loans, and start investing in. But she's bad at budgeting and is slowly going to let interest tear her apart.
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I would literally k*** her and wear her skin for 80k yearly.
What is WRONG with these people?
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look into conspicuous spending by race theres a reason BIPOCs have less money and its not racism
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Wow sweaty that's a bad take. Blacks have to spend more of their income to combat racism!
https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/lamont/files/how_blacks_use_consumption.pdf
@hypernovasaiz stand with Israel.
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Who the heck watches these boring butt videos
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You watch hoping the person is a bigger train wreck than you so you feel better about your own miserable life
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I haven't gotten over the initial bemusement that people are willing to live their life in ever-growing debt and present themselves to be berated about it. Odds are I'll be bored and watching something else within the next few months but for the moment it's still pretty interesting and not the worst way to waste my lunch breaks.
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I just listen to them
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Lol why would you drain your 401k when you're allowed to borrow from it? I borrowed $25k from mine when I bought my house. It was a 5 year term at 6%. Paid it back in 3.
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20m30s timestamp
The little smile she gives after he asks her to cancel the vacation, she know she aint finna do that
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I could beat you in a fight. Just saying. I'm also the most respected member of this site and could easily get you permabanned or stronghand aevann into giving me your IP address. Just saying. I'm taller and smarter and more attractive than you. Just saying. I can beat up your little girlfriend too. Just saying. I'm also a better writer than you. Just saying. I have a bigger vocabulary than you. Just saying. I'm a better guitarist than you. Just saying. I'm the funniest member of this site. Just saying.
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Great post. Makes me feel better about myself.
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