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Weddings are a scam :platyhappymerchant:

It's unbelievable how expensive all this is :marseytrollcrazy:

Initially, we were going to do a courthouse wedding. A photographer and wedding clothes would have been under 5k, and we could save money for the honeymoon :marseycalebhammer: Just our parents, and we can go visit everyone else after the honeymoon. Neither pair of parents were impressed with this :marseybardfinn: Facing pressure, and with the idea that they would pay costs :marseyfry: (getting back to this), we decided to plan a simple one day ceremony+reception :taynod:

It is not so simple. It's astounding how greedy :marseyjewish: nearly every private vendor is. I have to explicitly make a remark about private vendors; state parks :marseystalin: have much lower fees to reserve venue space. I do not know why you would choose to rent a private space other than being a brat :marseybacktotiktok: with stupid amounts of cash. No, we are not going to spend $300 :capymerchant just to do some taste testing for a reception dinner. That's the price of a small cake :dramacake2nd: I am sick of calling up vendors only for them to demand several thousand dollar minimums, of which our guest list does not even come close to reaching via a price per plate :marseydisagree: Oh by the way, don't forget that a service charge :marseywaiter: is calculated as a percentage of a minimum :landlordpride:

This is mortgage money :marseyabandoned:, baby money :mcbealdancingbaby:, ANYTHING-ELSE money that instead we are suggested to spend on other people. This is all to put up a Victorian-era farce that should have stayed in last century. What's next; I have to rent out seating for the consummation? :horny: :hump: :!horny:

This would all be fine and dandy if the proponents of these ideas would come forth with funding. But talk about money and they are quick to drag their feet :marseysigh: Obviously I am not interested in pissing off parents because I am trying not to pay for daycare when the time comes :marseybeggar: No one is even stepping up to offer their property as a venue.

Someone even suggested we take a personal loan out to pay for all this :marseyschizoshaking: :marseyraging: :marseyraging: Why would you EVER do that?

I want to spend money to build a family, not on ornate crap that does not matter. This is just a hypercapitalistic version of dowry; instead of buying something useful for the other family, like a cow :marseylolcow: :!marseycow:, I'm expected to pay OTHER people I will never speak to again an inordinate amount of money :marseycuck::marseycuck::marseycuck:

In short, the west has fallen :chuditsover:, millions must pay billions for, uh, hors d' oeuvre, chud? :marseyfrenchitsover2:

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That settles it. Don't try to hide behind principle or even your own pathetic cowardice as an excuse anymore.

You're just an evil motherlover.

Hope the pibbles get you eventually.

Or you finally realize that, yes, you DO take pleasure in causing animals pain, and in a brief moment of lucidity you relieve us of your existence with a shotgun.

Your body would be more useful to society as dog food than in it's current state.

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