46 year old Cybersecurity Engineer who got married to a guy she knew for three weeks then got divorced is deep in 230'000 of debt

https://youtube.com/watch?v=Neh2Wd0Ksk8

No timestamps because I had it on in the background while I was doing some work, jotting this down from memory. First half was kind of just insanity

https://old.reddit.com/r/CalebHammer/comments/1f8vmnj/i_finally_lost_my_mind_financial_audit/

Key points:

  • Guy was 5'4'' Argentinean CPA sent peepee pics to some Argentinean girl so they broke up.

  • Not a green card marriage, she is adamant about this

  • Both the marriage and divorce debts are in collections so she's single and looking to mingle.

    • Paid a dating coach
  • Bringing in $84'000 a year, plans on making a candle business

  • Literally no financial knowledge, thought balance transfers meant "paid off"

  • She blames the guy (she gave him a cc) for her debt but the cc she gave him is actually the lowest one :marseyxd:

  • Weird discussion at some point where he tries to explain that doordashing eggs is not a good choice or something I got really lost

  • Mentions she lost 85 pounds at some point

  • $273'000 student loans?

    • Initial amount was 193'000, lots of deferments

    • 2000 monthly, 255 in some "Save" Plan thing (it is getting challenged in court)

  • A few payday loans (Some Dave equivalent named Bridget)

  • 9'000 loaned against her retirement?????? 10'000 outside of that in there?

  • $1000 in her checking

  • Believes in astrology, wants "to understand her birthchart"

    • "It is science-based"

    • Long argument about this

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How the frick do you have brains for cybersecurity but are so inane at basic shit. Autism?

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Why do you think she has brains? She's some sort of diversity hire.

Also what kind of cyber security job pays only 85k. Probably just in IT.

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So what do you say on job interview when you want to be diversity hired?

-Hello I am a cute twink BIPOC and I can't really do anything but I am very diverse and also a little nonbinary fluid

-HIRED

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