46 year old Cybersecurity Engineer who got married to a guy she knew for three weeks then got divorced is deep in 230'000 of debt

https://youtube.com/watch?v=Neh2Wd0Ksk8

No timestamps because I had it on in the background while I was doing some work, jotting this down from memory. First half was kind of just insanity

https://old.reddit.com/r/CalebHammer/comments/1f8vmnj/i_finally_lost_my_mind_financial_audit/

Key points:

  • Guy was 5'4'' Argentinean CPA sent peepee pics to some Argentinean girl so they broke up.

  • Not a green card marriage, she is adamant about this

  • Both the marriage and divorce debts are in collections so she's single and looking to mingle.

    • Paid a dating coach
  • Bringing in $84'000 a year, plans on making a candle business

  • Literally no financial knowledge, thought balance transfers meant "paid off"

  • She blames the guy (she gave him a cc) for her debt but the cc she gave him is actually the lowest one :marseyxd:

  • Weird discussion at some point where he tries to explain that doordashing eggs is not a good choice or something I got really lost

  • Mentions she lost 85 pounds at some point

  • $273'000 student loans?

    • Initial amount was 193'000, lots of deferments

    • 2000 monthly, 255 in some "Save" Plan thing (it is getting challenged in court)

  • A few payday loans (Some Dave equivalent named Bridget)

  • 9'000 loaned against her retirement?????? 10'000 outside of that in there?

  • $1000 in her checking

  • Believes in astrology, wants "to understand her birthchart"

    • "It is science-based"

    • Long argument about this

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>46

Darn, black don't crack on this one. She looked 28 to me. If she was smarter she would be selling some sort of skin cream instead of candles. If she were smarter.

>cybersecurity engineer for 84k

Not bad, bad for 46 but not bad if you started I guess ?? idk. She wants more money (no shit)but I'm assuming shes being paid journeyman level considering she's a fricking idiot. Like shes probably the diversity hire at a company and probably just makes sure the SAST template exists in the gitlab or something lmao.

Like hearing what she did with this guy giving him her CC and SSN and shit. With all this debt if she was working DoD she would a fricking GLOWING insider threat indicator.

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Like shes probably the diversity hire at a company

Sure hope this is true

If someone's actually relying upon her work then someone's in real trouble

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