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I unironically hate my wife and want to divorce her

Divorcees of rdrama.net, what do you even do in this situation? How do you get the ball rolling without getting all your money stolen away and your life ruined?

I can't bear her anymore. She makes me miserable when I'm around her. I look forward to her going to work because being in her presence makes me seethe.

She's unloving, she's involved in politics and that's all she talks about which makes me so bored. She has lost all sense of fun and humour. She's got a shit part-time job but is actually quite capable -- if she spent half the time she spent doing politics shite for free she'd have a decent career. If I dare raise the fact she's got an easy job and does nothing to bring additional income to the family, she gets angry and upset that I'm demeaning her.

She does nothing around the house so it's always a mess. I work full time and have a decent career in data. Currently manipulating behind the scenes for another promotion to director level and, no bullshit about male and females roles in household chores, I don't have the time to clean shit up when she has been at home all day doing nothing important.

Ideally, if she were to get elected as a politician -- which isn't likely to happen but that's what her focus is on -- that would be an ideal time for me to leave her because instead of earning 4 times less than me, she'd earn the same so I wouldn't get fricked with child support.

But it's so unlikely to happen -- she's failed twice before to get anywhere but just won't stop. So I'm stuck. Options are wait another 10 years for the kids to be 18, accept financial ruin and become a poorcel, live in misery cohabiting with a cold fish of a wife who I despise.

What would you do?

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Im on my 4th marriage it's pretty easy to get divorced you just hire an attorney also she is gonna take your money unfortunately there is no way around that

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4th marriage

holy crap this is like voluntarily jumping into a lava pit, but 4 times

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Does anyone even come to weddings after your second?

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For the open bar

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I only knew one guy who married two times and like 90% of our side of the family boycotted it cause his divorce was over an affair with the girl he married. :marseycringe: But they show up occasionally at get togethers and shit now and everyone acts polite, its weird.

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:marseylaughpoundfist::marseyl: !besties I want to believe :marseygossipsmug:

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Darn, LLM's no of marriages > LLM's height in feet

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zoz

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Who changed Sir Zozalot's text font lol

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Now we know the answer to the enigmatic question: how do manlets reproduce? They marry Colombian hookers looking for a green card. :marseyagree:

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Hi Anger against Mayor Wu seems to make sense now, he wants to marry her and make her the fifth

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