Reddit convinces woman to choose a job she doesn’t care about over marriage and children

So... your boyfriend of one year wants to make you completely dependent on him.

He has insulted your work and worth, and tells you that you have to comply to keep him.

It also sounds like you come from a verbally abusive household (normal families would never tell you that you're not maternal or that working makes you lesser). Which is the background abusers look for in their targets. So it makes it even more likely that your boyfriend is doing this to make you dependent.

lol