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forgotmyoldacc they/them  1yr ago (reddit.com) 1,339 thread views #184250

I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my pregnant fiancée (32F) and walked out. She's begging me to go back - not sure what to do? : relationship_advice

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I dunno the way she described him seems less like he was her "last resort" and more like she just liked him the most :marseyshrug:
>he's nice, responsible, funny, and good in bed
>"omg how could she USE ME like that?!" :marseysoyseethe:































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Yeah, doesn’t seem like a backup. More like “I wanna get serious and he’s the best option in every major way.”































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Yeah, it may not be flattering to think "what, you mean it wasn't love at first sight and a grand passion?" but she was ready to settle down, marry and have kids, she had options, and she picked him out of them all.
I think guys don't realise how pragmatic women are about marriage. Crazy bitches, sure, they only want fun and money, but good wife material is going to be practical about "is he dependable? is he a good provider? can we get on together when the romance dies down?" because you don't want to be left with two kids when he decides the hot 20 year old who just started at work is his soul mate.
I'm presuming he wanted to settle down with her because he had a list of "would make a good wife" qualities in mind as well and she fit them.
Hope it works out for both of them.































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Its a double post wall marriage too. You don't marry your "crush" at 39.































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This reads more like a man who wants out of his familial duties than a man who was taken advantage of































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There's literally nothing wrong here she sounds like a decent foid.
Foids will always have more romantic prospects than moids do, so if he's going to get all pissy about being chosen from a lineup then he's a fricking r-slur.
Ohhh I wasn't the only moid you ever considered your whole life? You fricking scheming slut!































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Ironically this is a very foid-brained type of freakout, where he's upset about the manner where the info was presented as opposed to the actual contents of what he was describing.































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