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Girl asks to open relationship, boyfriend of 7 years turns her into the side chick

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I am so jealous of my boyfriend's girlfriend.

My partner and I of seven years decided to be in an open relationship about a year ago. He stated he didn't want poly but really just s*x and fun connections and what not. Well he met someone and now he spends half his time with her. They go away for days at a time, I am forced to Google schedule time together otherwise he fills up his time with her, I don't feel like a priority. He says I am and I expressed that they are spending too much time together but it has seemed to fall on deaf ears. He had told me time and again if it came down to it he would chose me. While I didn't give him an ultimatum he told me a couple days ago that he won't break up with her and that if I cannot handle this new change in the relationship then essentially it will end. I am absolutely gutted. I feel like this is the beginning of the end. He said if at any point we need to shut it down we could but now he has changed his mind. He spends time with her family and goes away on little trips and runs when she calls crying and I feel like this is going to tear me apart. He is a good man but all I think now is that he is choosing someone else. If I don't put up with this then it's over. He knows I am upset and I can't help it. I feel like my anxiety and sadness over this will push him into her arms and home will not be a place he wants to be anymore. I feel like he bait and switched me and now I'm sharing the love of my life 50/50 without a choice. Less than that because our of the 50 percent he is at home, his work and friends and other life stuff needs to be addressed. It was my idea to open the relationship and I feel like I am losing him and I feel like I will lose him.

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wow you rarely see the reverse of the "I convinced my wife to do poly and now she is fricking everyone" type of post

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lol ok somehow i missed the fact that she opened this relationship to go do BDSM shit with one of her exes. that is the truest "frick around and find out" i've seen in a hot minute

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It's like voting democrat but faster

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Every time. Every time. Is it mandatory to have no brain if you want to try poly?

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:marseyagree#:

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it's like being a cop, they kick you out of the polycule if your IQ is too high

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No one intelligent would want to be poly in the first place

/s

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I remember one where the husband just started pounding boypusyy/transkitty left and right and the wife couldn't take it. I don't remember which though.

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Trussy destroyer

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Because women don't mind finding out their moid is able to get tons of female attention. They don't like it when a moid can spend emotional currency on another woman because he is spending less of it on her

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That's real, my wife has always seemed to kinda relish it when a girl flirts with me. I can't imagine she'd be happy if I didn't shut it down or reciprocated, but she has definitely been living proof to me that women want men that other women want.

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I got catcalled by a group of women walking with my girlfriend and she seemed more proud of it than me

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My ex got very jealous when women were crushing on me and so I toned down the flirting with other girls (neurodivergent btw)

She then admitted that she wanted me to keep flirting with them because she actually fantasized about me cheating on her and liked me making her jealous

Why are women like this?

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rdrama's /h/lit is finally getting more creative

(I'm onto you frickers. If I find it too easy to greentext a story it's usually fake, kinda odd how OP always turns out to be Gay hmm??)

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I think that was a plot point in house md like three times.

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I feel like this is a work of fiction but frick it I choose to believe because a foid losing in the "lets open the relationship" is always so sweet to read.

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