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Foid writes an article about how men need to stop interacting with her, r/Australia does a misogyny

https://old.reddit.com/r/australia/comments/16u4svy/how_to_compliment_a_woman_without_being_creepy

Nice peepee, girl!

:#marseywholesometrans:

Step 1, Don't compliment them and move along.

Why shouldn't you compliment people?

Because they'll get upset if:

• ⁠you don't know them,

• ⁠you do know them but they're at work, or

• ⁠you know them but there's some difference in rank between you at work or socially

• ⁠if you comment on their physical appearance and they're not your family or romantic partner

Apparently.

Uhm… I don't know who needs to hear this but they only get upset when you are ugly.

:#marseyxesright:

I have complimented a bunch of random women and I find that as long as you're not leering, awkward, or being sexual most women appreciate them and will acknowledge it or smile at you. No strings attached compliments are great.

Are there women who will think I am a creep for it - sure but frick this world where we self isolate ourselves or others because we are too scared for a kind word.

Tell us you don't get it without telling us

:#bloomer: v :#soyegirl:

We only seem to discuss this from a women's perspective.

As I man I struggle more with hardly ever getting a compliment; I guess it would feel nice. Or receive flowers; I would like that!

:#marseypleading2genocide:

Oh the world has completely gone mad. There is great scrutiny attached to things which are normal. Societal norms are taking away genuine human expressions.

:#chuditsover:

dont talk to them, don't look at them and don't think about them you sickos!

Better not be reading any t shirt slogans either you degenerate

And finally, a Redditette's perspective-

Keep this in mind.

We don't dress up for you. We don't make ourselves look nice so we can be judged by random guys and that is exactly how it comes across. They may as well be holding up a scorecard.

Maybe you think you are being precious and unique but we've heard it before and we've been abused, insulted and followed by guys saying the same kind of thing. It can descend from "Nice hair" to long strings of threats of vicious crimes, murder and of course profanity just because we didn't want to give some rando our phone number because he demands it.

Getting out of that situation is about self preservation. We don't want to get attacked and we don't know if you're going to or not.

When a woman doesn't receive your "compliment" well or flat out ignores you, this is why.

We don't go out to get scored by creeps, can we have that? Can we just go shopping, to work, so on and live our lives without some creep feeling the need to tell us he likes the way our body looks because he wants to get some? The world is not a dating site.

Just stop.

!strayans be nicer to the sheilas in your life

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