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this is the original twox thread: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16hll0e/im_unsure_if_i_should_tell_my_boyfriend_this?sort=controversial
even that thread is not that supportive of her
I mean she acted irresponsibly if her attention was to keep that guy. She couldn't close the shop down for 2 months while scouting a potential life partner? Seriously?
Personally that wouldn't bother me.
Technically if they weren't exclusive, she wasn't cheating. Was it implied at any point?
To me if neither party declared themselves to be exclusive I don't really see what the issue is here. Non-exclusivity to me means you're able to meet up with other people for a date, and yes, to frick your friend with benefits. I would presume the other person is doing the same, and if they aren't that's their prerogative. Once you're exclusive, if not once the relationship starts to get more serious, people tend to cut off the fwb and stop casually seeing other people.
You don't have to declare normality
And how is normality being defined? Seems like casual dating is now practically married levels of exclusivity.
that doesn't really sound like casual dating
Slut shaming bs aside, that's all fine and dandy. Your experience does not correlate with a vast majority of adults. You're in an exclusive relationship with someone the moment you meet them for the first time? If someone said that to me at one point a first date I would leave immediately. Creep behavior
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Was she cheating
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If you have to use the word ‘exclusive' in the “so are we boyfriend/girlfriend” talk then it never even began for you.
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Women trying to date you, ask you this after you have s*x.
If the conversation doesnt happen, you should make assumptions and act accordingly.
Am I OOTL now or is there a bunch of nonsense floating around bc men are no longer getting laid?
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Yeah, reading this thread I can only assume rdrama is full of poors or devout Muslims in arranged marriages.
Guys, I have way too much frickboi peepee to get through to wait around for you to screw up the nerve to be like, "w-w-what are we?"
If you want me to be exclusive from the first date, you should lead with that in your second message so I can save time and unmatch you.
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#hoes happy🤔
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she literally says it was "for a couple of months"
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Then golly gee wilickers maybe in all that time this scrote should have put on his big boy pants and had a conversation with her about their relationship?
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honey, the default is exclusivity, especially when she asks to take things slow.
and while i agree that it's technically not cheating, it's still a breakupable offense.
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I love that for you that you'd assume that.
There's no breakup, they weren't even a couple. Frfr
But anyway, I agree: not cheating, but clearly those two not compatible.
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i am totally crying for the women that frick around
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I was gonna say
but you did manage to get some engagement.
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I'm hardly even baiting, if you can believe it. Maybe I'm leaning slightly harder into my actual beliefs: there's nothing wrong with casually seeing more than one person, and when the time comes to get serious you have to have some tact and finesse and also an honest conversation to DTR.
Moids on this site just can't help themselves. The slightest hint that some girl has a s*x life that doesn't involve worshipping only their limp peepee forever, and it's
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There is a lot wrong with being a whore
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But you know in this case there was something implied.
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If I have to tell her not to frick around she's a hoe and it's a massive turn off.
Foids need to learn to read the room.
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As if anyone would want to endure your ho butt for more than 15 minutes
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I'll have you know I'm delightful.
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It's clear nobody thinks you're special enough to care what you're doing on the other nights of the week.
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Sexless white people so they can fit their sexual values to a narrative that has zero connection to reality.
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Reading through this thread as a gay man is pretty funny. I dont get it. You go on a couple dates with someone and you're supposed to just close up shop? What's the point of being exclusive with someone if you both haven't mutually agreed to it? Straggotry is so complex.
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I dunno. In my day this wasnt an issue because the girl would hound you about it. Those that didnt keep asking to have "the talk" were quickly passed around to everyones benefit.
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Not the ones in this site, at any rate.
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They're synonyms as far as I know. The “what are we” talk implies exclusive.
Before that, anything goes.
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But seizing on that anything goes signal values, if the dude is a tradcath soldier then he shouldn't try to lay with a hoe. What she did wasn't immoral or worthy of punishment but hoeing around in the discovery phase is a statement of values and should be treated by dudes accordingly to not waste both parties time.
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Sounds like a girlfriend for one night only.
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"Please take this promise ring I happen to have with me"
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