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foid fricks around and finds out

https://old.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/179hkww/she_thought_it_was_no_big_deal_banging_her_friend?sort=controversial

this is the original twox thread: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16hll0e/im_unsure_if_i_should_tell_my_boyfriend_this?sort=controversial

even that thread is not that supportive of her

I don't see anything wrong. She didn't cheat on him. And she told him the truth. He has a right to not want to date her. Seems like they both behaved reasonably.

I mean she acted irresponsibly if her attention was to keep that guy. She couldn't close the shop down for 2 months while scouting a potential life partner? Seriously?

Personally that wouldn't bother me.

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Technically if they weren't exclusive, she wasn't cheating. Was it implied at any point?

To me if neither party declared themselves to be exclusive I don't really see what the issue is here. Non-exclusivity to me means you're able to meet up with other people for a date, and yes, to frick your friend with benefits. I would presume the other person is doing the same, and if they aren't that's their prerogative. Once you're exclusive, if not once the relationship starts to get more serious, people tend to cut off the fwb and stop casually seeing other people.

You don't have to declare normality

And how is normality being defined? Seems like casual dating is now practically married levels of exclusivity.

>I wanted to build slowly with this man

that doesn't really sound like casual dating

I really don't get this "exclusive" nonsense? is it a particularly American thing or am I just too old?

I would never tell someone I'm going exclusive with them because I would always be exclusive with them. If I'm dating someone then I'm dating just that one person, I'm not at a sampling smorgasbord, trying everything all at once. that's just being slutty, whatever your gender is...

From the point of asking someone out and going on a first date to the point where we agree that we're not a thing, I would automatically and only be with that one person... is that not reasonable?

Slut shaming bs aside, that's all fine and dandy. Your experience does not correlate with a vast majority of adults. You're in an exclusive relationship with someone the moment you meet them for the first time? If someone said that to me at one point a first date I would leave immediately. Creep behavior

>You're in an exclusive relationship with someone the moment you meet them for the first time

:#marseystrawman:

Why are we assuming poster is a she?

Name of the subreddit (twoX)

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Was she cheating

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He said, "sorry, I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who does that", then he blocked me

holy mother of based

:#m!arseykneel::!#marseykingcrown:

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Sad that simply having a normal reaction to hoe behavior is what passes as based now

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Your average moid is so down bad it's not even postironically funny :marseylibations:

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Outside of the internet this is completely normal and expected lol

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Blocking to get the last word in is pretty childish and not based ngl :marseyshrug: it's a :marseyzoomer: thing to think that's cool.

How would that translate to an irl conversation? You say something then turn and run away while covering your ears and screaming nanananana? Decidedly not keyed.

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I thought the same thing 5 minutes ago and then I tried explaining things that should be common sense and realized why he did it. It's not like he was going to get back with her. Not worth his time answering a million dumb questions with a crying foid

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Just ignore them :marseyretardchad: what I really meant though is that it's so weird zoomers have these conversations online in the first place. It makes me feel old to think it's weird to have serious conversations where body language and tone might be important over text. :marseyboomer:

For example back in the day it used to be a huge douchebag move to breakup over text. Now everyone does it because muh anxiety and physical safety :marseymeds:

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For example back in the day it used to be a huge douchebag move to breakup over text.

it's still a douche move though. breaking up in person is for sure the best catharsis.

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Block number

Move cities

Fake death

Change name

Scrape fingerprints

Join cult

Participate in mass suicide event

Reincarnate

Only then can you be safe

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reincarnate as her golden shepherd

:#marseyaware:

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Just resist the Nutella

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Breaking up irl seems unnecessary when you've only been :quote:exclusive:quote: for a couple days or w/e :marseyantiwork:

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:marseyhesright:

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The stupid :marseyneuron: trend in modern :marseywarhol: dating :marseyitsrigged: about the exclusivity talk is insane. If you're fricking :marseytom: three :marseydilbert: other people every weekend I'm not interested. Those people cannot exist in long term relationships.


:!marseybarrel: :marseybarreldrunk:

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date for months


it doesn't count because you didn't say the magic words

:marseydeadinside::marseyitneverbegan:

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Tale as old as time. Happened to my dumb butt in 2007.


:!marseybarrel: :marseybarreldrunk:

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It's all about technicalities nowadays and gaining the upper hand or so it seems Idk. We live in low-trust times :marseyclown3:

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>Just ignore them

You just let the rejects clog up your messages?

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I feel validated leaving people on delivered, ok. It makes me feel wanted.

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She's the one texting him to say she cheated on him, he's just responding in kind

Yet again, we can hate women :marseyhearnoevil:

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Absolutely not, all women are QUEENS. :marseycrusader2:

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You tell the b-word "We're done" then hop on your chariot and ride away.

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!coomers how many of you can name the studio that made this?

Hint: It has house in the name

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Isnt it the dude who puts women in pvc pipes in the floor and covers them up with carpet?

!coomers whos got the video

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:#ohgodwhy:


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Chapo Trap House?

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!coomers none of you got it, it's house of gord https://bondagevalley.cc/videos/category/870 I am now king coomer

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You said how many could name it, not if we could name it. Upmarseys were yes answers. King coomer my butt. :marseysurejan:

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:#marseycope:

if u didn't comment u didn't know

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I've never seen any gord-content before but I've heard about his massive peepee and huge balls

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uhhhh

JesusHouse?

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Twinkie House?

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Mde season 2 has the daddy dom Olympics

Trans lives matter

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wrong

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Potentially :marseythinkorino: I will concede slamming the door in someone's face can be cathartic

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Literally

" I don't want to be in a relationship with you because of this. Goodbye" and you leave

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Blocking foids is one of life's greatest pleasures

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Denying me closure is just cruelly running up my therapist bills. If I didn't know better, I'd suspect she and the scrotes were running a racket together.

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Therapy is definitely a :marseyfoidretard: racket yeah. Unless they're giving you concrete advice on how to fix things and holding you accountable via direct confrontation :marseymagdump: you're just paying someone to listen to you, presumably because you scare men away by being a whore. :tayshrug:

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You're a woman?

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:iseewhatyoudidthere:

So they tell me.

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I don't know if there's a woman on the planet who's played Seaman.

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Confession time: I've never played it, but I saw some YouTube videos about it and I loved how weird and creepy it looked.

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I've never played it

You've just escaped femcel status, I will now treat you like a human being.

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Post bobs or vagene?

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Not until I've strung you along for 2-3 months first, sweaty. :marseyblowkiss:

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:marseyflirt:

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It's extra fun to unblock them later :marseywave2: and send a message.


:!marseybarrel: :marseybarreldrunk:

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you have to let me respond!!

:#soyjaktantrumtalking:

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:chadyes: jfc I hate terminally online zoomers, it's like you've never interacted with a real community irl.

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I would just pour a beer on your head if you tried to talk to me after I was done

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It's cute you think you would physically intimidate me :marseyblowkiss:

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You may have a humiliation fetish but I would still enjoy doing it

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Ignoring the opinion of hoes is not based.

Get in the car you fricking loser. We are taking you to the closest Misogynist HQ for the next two months for reeducation. It's for your own good.

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If he didn't block her, he'd be getting crying bullshit messages for months

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:gigachad4: yes and? As a scrote you should be confident in your decisions before you make them, and therefore immune to whining

Blocking is fine and you don't need to get into pointless conversations it's just a :marseyzoomer: flex to do it to get the last word in and that's kinda pathetic tbqhwyf

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Have you ever gotten 40 notifications in 2 hours at work? :marseyitsallsotiresome:

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:marseystrawman:

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He doesn't have to because he wasn't a shortsighted r-slur. He blocked her right away.

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The whole point is to make them feel how you did while writing this comment, it's incredible value

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:marseyeyeroll2: ok buddy

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:#marseymaldingtalking:

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:marseyshrug: this isn't the pressure point you think it is

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You not realizing it makes it even funnier

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Nah, you just exit with authority and talk over them if they try to fight back verbally after you've made your intentions to have the last word known.

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>tell a b-word that I no longer wish to date her because she was being a ho

>she starts to protest but I am covering my ears and saying "la la la la can't hear you, I can't hear you la la la la"

>refuse to elaborate

>run away as fast as I can

:gigacha#d4:

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You have been blocked.

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Many times, yes. It's standard operating procedure.

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Ummm why is he being such a creepy incel? Why can't he just leave women ALONE

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"how dare he judge you like that!!!"

-spinster who calls everything red flags when the guy does it

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It's called punching up sweaty

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>breaking up with her and immediately Blocking her

Cuck move. A real king would let her beg for a few hours first before breaking up with her and letting her sneed at him for entertainment purposes.

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Cuck move. A real king would let her beg for a few hours first before breaking up with her bussy and letting her sneed at him for entertainment purposes.

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Dudes rock :marseygrilling:

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If you have to use the word ‘exclusive' in the “so are we boyfriend/girlfriend” talk then it never even began for you.

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Women trying to date you, ask you this after you have s*x.

If the conversation doesnt happen, you should make assumptions and act accordingly.

Am I OOTL now or is there a bunch of nonsense floating around bc men are no longer getting laid?

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Reading through this thread as a gay man is pretty funny. I dont get it. You go on a couple dates with someone and you're supposed to just close up shop? What's the point of being exclusive with someone if you both haven't mutually agreed to it? Straggotry is so complex.

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I dunno. In my day this wasnt an issue because the girl would hound you about it. Those that didnt keep asking to have "the talk" were quickly passed around to everyones benefit.

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Not the ones in this site, at any rate.

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They're synonyms as far as I know. The “what are we” talk implies exclusive.

Before that, anything goes.

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But seizing on that anything goes signal values, if the dude is a tradcath soldier then he shouldn't try to lay with a hoe. What she did wasn't immoral or worthy of punishment but hoeing around in the discovery phase is a statement of values and should be treated by dudes accordingly to not waste both parties time.

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Sounds like a girlfriend for one night only. :marseyagree:

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"Please take this promise ring I happen to have with me"

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