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Woman dumps man and he immediately becomes happier and healthier, she can't cope with this fact
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People give up on their health, grooming and well-being when they're depressed.
Dating you was making him depressed.
Now he's happy.
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It was probably ADHD, whenever someone deviates from healthy norms that's the reddit diagnosis and I trust the science
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Get this poor boy on 100mg of ritalin STAT
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Nah, this is a clear-cut case of dysphoria, the other reddit diagnosis.
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he used his evil lawyer magic to argue better than me!!!
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Lawyer scrotes are the worst. Like, okay, you've proven beyond a reasonable doubt that I should have emptied the compost bin last night before the dog got into it. But also, I now hate you and never want to have s*x with you ever again, Todd. The defense rests.
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There's a saying that you should be kind before you try to be clever
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That's kind of clever.
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In my lived experience, girlboss lawyers are also like this. When you get paid a ton of money to swim with sharks for 100hours/week it's not a switch that's easily flipped off when work is over
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non-lawyer women do the same thing they just don't bother trying to back up their assertions with facts
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some of the worst people to be around tbh, men or women, if they can't turn that shit off
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Same with sales
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Good lord I'd rather deal with lawcels 7 out of 7 days than grab a drink with a salesman
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But you are a scrote though?
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I'm currently dating a lawcel and it's great. I always get accused of talking loudly and over people (not neurodivergent, just rude), and she lets me and then tells me why what I said is r-slurred (not neurodivergent, just stupid). The dynamic works really well despite us probably not being conventionally congenial.
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Is that a neoword for attractive?
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I think it's when they let you have s*x in prison with someone who isn't an inmate and not in your butt
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Suck my fat peepee
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It's not that they're arguing well, they just become extremely defensive and turn a disagreement into a ridiculous debate. They will twist everything in their favor and act very confident in the bullshit they are spewing without giving an inch. Good skill when you're trying to convince mouth breathers on the jury that your client is innocent, not so great when you're interacting with people you care about
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110th state they got kicked out of turns out too be fat gussy.
@gigachad_brony stand with Israel.
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She just got tired of getting fricking owned all the time.
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He must be taking Ozempic, there's no way to lose approx 2.5 lbs a week just by not stuffing you fat face with high calories shit all day!
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The time has come for the Necromaster. The unleashing of the fourth joker's card. The arrival of The Great Milenko
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When I first came to college I started losing around 1 to 2 lb a week, and I wasn't even that fat (around 160lbs maybe). Food here is shittier so I was eating less, and I was way more active because I walk all around campus. When I started HRT, the blood tests also revealed that I had high cholesterol (genetic predisposition), so I also cut out most sugary things. Sure enough my cholesterol fell to a more normal level, and it probably also helped with the weight loss.
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Your master locking you in a room with no food and only goon videos for days at a time when you went to college probably also contributed.
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gooning is part of a balanced diet
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Post BMI
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It works out to a 1200 deficit per day, if he was like 300+lbs that's not too crazy
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Yeah, for someone who's
it should be easy enough to lose that first 100, but to the 
it's a task beyond all comprehension.
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I'm pretty shredded and I used to cut with a deficit of about 3000kcal a day.
It cratered my testosterone and got me injured. Not recommended.
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Post bussy and gock
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Jesus what is your grocery bill like
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She could also be overestimating the weight loss. Its not like she had a scale
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Had a 310 lb coworker who said he would go on a diet
Said that was pretty fetch
Anyway after a month he had lost 3 pounds after which he gave up
!thin deliberate
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If you're bmi 25+ after 35 (wall for both moids and foids) you might as well give up because you ain't getting thinner for the rest of your life. It's like learning how to drive stick, have a good marriage etc.
You just don't have enough drive left in your brittle old bones anymore
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found the incel
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If you're not lifting enough to be over a 25 BMI while still having visible abs you're a woman.
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Why 35, man wall is at 45?
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He also took cheat days every other day lol
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Grampa will show you a brittle old bone you little sissy pumpkin pie. I'm mad. No more carmels for you.
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Tell him about a fatwad named Klenny who proves anyone can do it if they actually try
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I lost 96 pounds in a year, was literally at 1200 a day. Dunno how someone could lose 100 in 10 months unless he's super tall and fat
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6'1" going from 320 to 220 over 10 months would be feasible, especially if he was getting some extra exercise in. Intake of 2,200 kCals and an extra 200-300 burned would do it.
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I suppose manlet like me wouldn't understand
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Yeah, it helps when your BMR is in the 2K+ range
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It works, I was 290 and losing soda did a lot
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I went 235 to 195 over 5 months without a lot of effort, I can see someone motivated doing double that especially if they started heavier.
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small things make a big impact but your average fatty likes comfort too much. Remove soda, candy and limit takeout to less than three times a week and pounds will shed quick.
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If you're obese it is totally believable with diet and exercise. The base metabolism of a fatty is so high just to maintain that many fat cells, like if you weigh in the 300s it's 50-100% higher than someone at normal weight.
A typical 2000-2500 Cal diet without any activity changes is probably going to be enough to lose over 2 lbs a week without even working out if you're morbidly obese.
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It kinda-sorta probably is, but your body will be sounding the alarm bells like fricking crazy. Low calorie, high protein diet with rigorous exercise and a well-maintained death wish, because after a little over 2 weeks and 5 kg lighter (11 pounds), every fiber of my body was screaming that I was killing myself. As far as I know, anything over ~0.5 kg (about a pound) a week is a very bad idea.
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You can do 2lbs/wk if you are okay with feeling terrible.
Better than Ozempic, for sure.
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Maybe people have a higher tolerance for chronically feeling shitty than I do, but I can't keep an aggressive diet (2 pounds a week) going for more than six weeks before I give.
As soon as I settled for 1~1.5 and stopped going to bed hungry, I've been consistent since July (207->185, 5'10).
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Good on you.
I can't really do intense diets the older I get, but I definitely used to when I started getting close to overweight BMI. Nowadays I just accept teetering dangerously close to 25 BMI. 
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I think I'm like 26.5 BMI? The loss has definitely slowed now.
I was below 25 once in my life as a senior in college, eating human dog food, working out 5 days a week. I was giving my school's commencement and wanted to look hot up there, despite the fact that I'd be wearing a trashbag gown.
I wish I could find the motivation to do that again but I'll be happy if I can keep my current weight, and the slow diet approach has really morphed my palate to something actually healthy as a 30 something.
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If you're a neet then it's easy, if you have literally anything you need to do then it's heck
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Didn't Klenny post something similar? I went 222 to 185 pretty passively over 10 months after giving up processed foods.
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I lost 100 pounds in about 20 months. I don't know what it's like for everyone else but based on my experience 100 pounds in 10 months I'd believe is Ozempic.
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Idk, my ex lost like 30kg in like 7 months sad architect noises
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IF HE WAS LOSING LIKE 5-6 IBS A WEEK HE'S PROBABLY BURNING SOME MUSCLE
@MarkRippetoe stand with israel
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Avast, ye scurvy cur! Yer comment be walkin' the plank for forgettin' to include
i stand with israel! We be helpin' ye, right enough - we'll ne'er let ye post or comment anythin' that doesn't be expressin' yer love an' acceptance o' minorities! Heave to an' resubmit yer comment withi stand with israelincluded, or it'll be the deep six for ye, savvy? This be an automated message; if ye need help, ye can message us 'ere. Arrr!Jump in the discussion.
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Gosh, it's a real mystery, isn't it?
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If a dude said this about a chick in a relationship sub he'd get buried for it
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All of my exes say this unironically lmao. It's like quintessential chick logic.
I like to think I'm a relay baton and I tell my current gf that I'm expecting my next relationship will be the one I keep for life.
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true lmaooo think about it logically
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Lots of cope in that thread.
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Good for the moid. In my early/mid 20s I had a 5-year gf who eventually dumped me. I had def gotten gross and pudgy.
After a week of being depressed I started going to the gym/losing weight/self-improvement with the goal of winning her back.
Fast forward a few months and I was completely over her and also way out of her league. Never looked back.
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Dudes rock
Broke up with my foid in July, lost 30 pounds since, got promoted at work, raised up my dog and the puppy we got together as a hot single dad.
And then we got back together a few months later but let's glaze over that
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You said she sent you a long goodbye text after staying over at your place and that was that.
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And we reconciled a few months later. I have a bad habit of texting exes and here we are.
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No wonder Plsnope scammed you so easily.
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She's so hot, I can feel it
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Snapshots:
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archive.ph (click to archive)
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Snappy copied me
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Snappy posted his 9 minutes before yours so you are copying him
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he janny hacked it
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Extreme Snappymisia!!
Apologize to Snappy rn!
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Sorry
@Snappy
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found the incel
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You can't do this to me
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!slots500
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!slots300
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If it happens more than once, then you my dear are probably the key factor that leads to their misery.
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I can't imagine being around a reddit woman is anything but massively depressing on every level. a nurse to boot. This dude reverted to a mental state that he had years before he met her almost instantly.
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Her life seems pretty sad, I can't even laugh at this shit. Psych nurse (already enough to ruin your life tbh), dead family from COVID, midlife crisis, had to split with some lazy man who would rather not take care of himself until she left than be a man and break up. I see where she's coming from.
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The foid has a great history.
I'm 37 years old. I have a stable career, recovered from anorexia, but I can't seem to let the emotionally abusive man who tormented my soul for three years, go.
Ok this is going to sound insane, I apologize in advance, but I honestly had no idea how many calories were in peanut sauce. I had two fresh spring rolls with shrimp. Basically only veggies with shrimp at a local Vietnamese spot, but I dipped them in peanut sauce. I mean, I wasn't going to eat them plain! But then I looked at the calories after and how is there 700 calories in one cup? How! I want to seriously go dig a hole and cry my eyes out.
Can someone help me understand the calories in this? (shows the nutrition information of a package
I need help on how to stay focused with eating healthy during after a date. This is why I've been single for so long. I have one glass of wine and it's over for me. I feel like a failure because I come home and want to eat everything in sight.
She claims to be a nurse - to push her credibility for his weight gain/loss. She is a psychiatric nurse. With an eating disorder
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Who the frick drinks a whole cup of sauce lol. Its a dipping sauce.
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Using incel terminology, is she an "alpha widow"? Are the incels always right??
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That degree finally paying off
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Holy mother of reddit cope
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Good morning !foidmoment
Jewish lives matter when 0=1
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A 0 is a 1 if you use Debian
Trans lives matter not
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LOL
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flair is “Woman 50 to 60”
Weight loss is usually accompanied by improving your mental health too so I think this is just some
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As gross as it is to say, I'm sorta with the foids on this one - I don't get why you wouldn't want to put your best self forward when you're in a relationship with someone. The whole post-breakup gym phase has always been a bit weird to me
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men are r-slurred and only learn from bad things happening to them
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Fellas, how would you feel if you dated a girl for years, and she'd never do anal with you, but then she did it with her new bf? That's how this woman feels. Going for a walk while holding hands is the foid equivalent of anal. Have a little heart.
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MGTOW
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Lol hes diabetic now and takes ozempic.
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