https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/17zp7h4/1_year_update_me_30f_going_on_a_date_with_23m
OP is 30F dating a 23M
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We fight about something stupid (his anger gets triggered and he doesn't listen to me when I explain my side, and tells me I don't make any sense), I cry a lot, he eventually makes up with me
Oh and it's “my fault” he's in a bad mood all the time because I only have s*x with him once a week. (I lost my sexual connection to him the day he lost his temper at me when I declined s*x one night).
I've tried teaching that to my bf and even included a “safe word” during disagreements to try to get us to step back and reassess our emotions but it doesn't work
Neighbor just leave, nobody's keeping you there.
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lmao I SAID THE SAFE WORD THAT MEANS YOU CANT KEEP TELLING ME IM WRONG
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It's literally a Portlandia sketch that a woman uses a safe word to shut down any conversations or interactions.
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It is a mystery how this woman was single for so long.
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The dude is 23, he probably wants it 3x a day and getting denied triggers his still developing brain.
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Foids lol. Also she's raping him and holds all the power in the relationship
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Where are all the comments calling her a libertarian for dating such a young and impressionable boy?
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Its only oppressive if you're dating young people i can't get
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it's (D)ifferent, sweaty
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Years later she will talk about this toxic "situationship" as the one that got away
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Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
ghostarchive.org
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
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Groomer
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So why doesn't she leave?
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Because even though she's 30 with no kids she still has no meaningful career and can only barely afford a studio apartment.
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found the incel
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Yeah, he won't leave. Why doesn't she leave?
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Yeah. Why doesn't she leave?
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She could just leave tho
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Bad bait
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It's not bait, unironically she COULD just leave. She's dating 23 year Olds so not like her credit matters
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LMAO she still is r-slurred for getting a lease with him. Mysogynists win again
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