The idea that multiple women, none of whom know each other, are all saying the same things about him being a coincidence is about a billion to one.
OOP gives an entire thesis on how he's been wronged. Why the need to defend himself so much if he's such a saint?
8 beers and 2 margaritas in 2 hours?? Bullshit. With that much liquid she'd be in the bathroom peeing the whole time and far too busy to be doing anything else
I wanna meet the 8 beers 2 margs lady in person. That is IMPRESSIVE.
OP IN COMMENTS:
Kids: Lie of omission. Never referenced in her profile so I assumed she didn't have any
Weight: pics in profile was skinnier than what she looked like in person. About 30 pounds. Even through text she sent me pics that did not match her in person body.
He never clarified the kid situation and just assumed her weight, unless the photo was very old or it was edited then she didn't lie
He calls them all "girls". Gross.
What makes a man feel unsafe with a woman? What does that mean?
I know if a woman feels unsafe, it can mean a number of things. Maybe she is afraid she will be sexually assaulted or maybe she is afraid she will be drugged or maybe she thinks she will be physically harmed or even murdered.
Is that how he felt unsafe with the woman he thought drank too much? He talked about her drinking and introducing him to her family but nothing that would indicate he wasn't "safe."
One guy said they needed one of these types of Facebook groups for guys to ask about women they're dating, and someone replied:
“The few “are we dating the same woman” groups I've seen pop up (and get shut down) the posts were completely different than the “are we dating the same guy” groups. Men were body shaming, calling women whores, blasting personal info, threatening to leak nudes etc. It's pretty gross. There is usually none of that in the women groups.”
The bar is truly in heck.
OP: They're saying I'm a ghoster, whaaaaaaaah
Also OP: I ghost women I'm uncomfortable with
I just don't have time to read all that
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And being 30+ pounds over is not lying, so long as that happened within 3 years?
Some people are beyond logic and simply need to be strangled.
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I love these kinds of online arguments. Everyone knows showing up to a date without mentioning you have kids is fricking gay. Same with using old photos or taking good pics to look skinnier or whatever. It sucks, we all know it sucks, but people are gonna do it so all you can do is whine. But then you have people who think they can nag you over the internet into dating a fat chick with a kid, which is completely r-slurred.
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