Just got back from a happy hour date that I cut short because the woman showed up and was noticeably larger than she was in the photos.
Half way through the first beer I told her I don't think this is going to work and we should probably end it early and she was taken back as to how fast I ended it
She asked why and I told her she doesn't look the same as she did in her pics
She got super pissed and called me shallow.
She tried to make me feel bad because she drove 20 miles to meet me,
I let her know that if she would've been honest about her current body size either via text or new photos, we wouldn't even have met in the first place.
This proceeded to make her even more upset
It's absolutely a ridiculous thing to do.
And when I got home I googled her since I had learned more about her, her main profile pic was from 2016… like cmon
Women, why do you do this?
Do you think men won't notice?
Do you think we'll look past it?
I'm genuinely curious
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This isn't real, but let's say it is. Why do people go through their lives doing the most assholish thing possible (ending the date early instead of just dealing with it for another half hour, then not lying when she asks why), get irritated when people call you butthole, and seek vaidation for choosing to be an butthole? It seems like a tiring life.
Like, whatever incel-adjacent shit you feel about fat women posting flattering pics of themselves (something men absolutely never do, ever), the whole process would have required the expenditure of less of OP's energy and time if he'd simply grinned through the date and ghosted/texted something about chemistry afterwards and gone on with his life. Instead he's seething about it days later. Why choose to do the thing that is worse for everyone involved?
Good for drama I guess
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I would probably lie if she asked why, but I cut dates short all the time.
I just say "I'm going now" and walk away. Shortest date was about 8 minutes.
The funny part is how often the foid will then bombard me with messages saying she had a great time and wants to meet again.
If we'd laughed and flirted all night, it would have been impossible to get as strong a positive reaction from them.
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ok
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Come back babe.
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"I'm going now"
Does this come off as spergy as you make it sound?
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Probably. The whole point is to kill the social interaction as efficiently as possible so I can go do something else.
I'm not worried about how I come off to someone I never want to see again.
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Yeah you're supposed to say "I have to hit the bathroom, I'll be right back, then tell me the rest of that story, please order dessert for us" and then go.
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I'm not saying I'd do this, but if you feel intentionally deceived I don't know why you should feel obligated to waste your time on a pointless date. Your partner couldn't be bothered to respect you.
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Why would you be nice to a fat woman
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because evidently this straggot will spend the days after sneeding about it online if he is not
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Unless you're an introvert, being nice is a fun way to pass time.
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If you tell her you have an appointment and can only chill for 10 minutes, you'll get a quick and effective blowey joey with an excuse to not reciprocate
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Fat women aren't entitled to men's time, sweaty
Trans lives matter, unlike legacy foids'.
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Giga simp detected
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Because I had a bad day and I want to make that everyone else's problem
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If he didn't tell her why then she'd never have a chance for self improvement, and she'd be stuck in an absolutely miserable cycle of "why do men never text me back? The dates always seem fine!"
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Yeah when I was in this situation I just gave her the silent
treatment and didn't pay for anything. Made it much less awkward 
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