Just got back from a happy hour date that I cut short because the woman showed up and was noticeably larger than she was in the photos.
Half way through the first beer I told her I don't think this is going to work and we should probably end it early and she was taken back as to how fast I ended it
She asked why and I told her she doesn't look the same as she did in her pics
She got super pissed and called me shallow.
She tried to make me feel bad because she drove 20 miles to meet me,
I let her know that if she would've been honest about her current body size either via text or new photos, we wouldn't even have met in the first place.
This proceeded to make her even more upset
It's absolutely a ridiculous thing to do.
And when I got home I googled her since I had learned more about her, her main profile pic was from 2016… like cmon
Women, why do you do this?
Do you think men won't notice?
Do you think we'll look past it?
I'm genuinely curious
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Lmao the post immediately devolved into foids talking about bald moids and height instead of talking about weight.
Yikes this is victim blaming:
The duality of the Reddit dater:
Imagine not doing research before a date:
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She's right, you're shallow. For those asking: preferences don't make you shallow. His attitude and the way he talks about her is what makes OP shallow.
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ahem, !codecels is this made with SD Web UI? or what? I need to know
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to be honest, I wonder if they were made by jailbreaking GPT4 and using DALLE3
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It can be. You can find fairly realistic models on civitai. To get a specific celebrity however requires using LoRAs in addition to those models.
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Looks like one of the newer SDs to me, maybe 2.0 or xl?
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!coomers Hot Taytay pics!
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Fat detected
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"why are you complaining about wasted time? why didnt you just waste a bunch of time beforehand googling her and stalking her facebook and hiring a private detective?"
idk maybe because you're on a dating app where you should make it clear if you're fricking fat or not.
i fricking hate women.
STOP LYING ABOUT BEING FAT YOU FAT DUMB B-WORD
Like, darn. I'll never understand this shit.
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No full body pic? No right swipe!
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Ditto if she has height req. I'm a tall, heightmaxxed chad, but not letting women discriminate against the height-r-slurred is good praxis.
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The moment someone criticises a foid, reddit goes full reverse "all lives matter" on the subject.
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No i don't stalk my date on Facebook before going out with them wtf?
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lmao this one:
Why don't you tell us first? Every woman who has ever said she doesn't mind being taller than her partner is lying. She clearly replied to his offer because he said he was taller than her, you can guarantee countless honest ones were thrown out.
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this is the same cope as the fat chick that tricked OP.
and some ladies legitimately don't care about height, just like some guys don't mind dating fats, but tricking people isn't a winning strategy.
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The difference in the height/weight thing is that dating apps ask for your weight but not height. Women will filter for 6'+ so dudes are motivated to lie just to be seen.
I am 5'11 on the dot unfortunately but women are r-slurred and I can pass for 6'+ since so many 5'8 dudes try to claim 5'10
If you are going to lie about any of this then to better give head like a pornstar
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Nobody was excusing the lying you r-slur, I was laughing at her hypocrisy for condemning lying while blatantly lying.
Right, she agreed to a date with him for every reason EXCEPT for the fact that she thought he was 6'2". Surely his height held no relevance whatsoever.
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Posted by /u/SadderOlderWiser
Maybe that advice about not taking foid advice is true....
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Yep. Just stop.
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