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First, he text divorced me after 24 years of marriage :marseybride: : TwoXChromosomes

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1adk2m8/first_he_text_divorced_me_after_24_years_of

Then he (46M) sent me (46F) an email laying :marseyantiwork2: out how all the finances would :marseymid: be, and then he blocked me for 3 months. We'd been married :marseybride: for 24 years. I was shocked.

He dragged the case on and on. My lawyer :marseygrouns: said, in front :marseyviewerstare: of the mediator, that she wouldn't take my case to trial (we had our mandatory mediation last week - it was horrible!!!) He is working :marseylifting: toward a trial. Did I mention he's a trial lawyer? Personal injury.

We had a lot of money, like a lot, and drove a lexus and wore fancy :marseycheers2: clothes :marseyredhood: (him too, as much or more as me), and bought 2 houses together :marseyropewithchingchong: but could never :marseyitsover: work out staying there, and have rented for a decade and a half.

Now he wants 50 cents :marseypiggybank: on the dollar :marseysamhyde: of any penny :marseybardfinnrentfree: I make - mind you I have no degree :marseygrad: and stayed home to raise :marseysuspicious: children :marseychildclutch: while he went to law school. I'm disabled :marseyblind: and we have multiple reports saying I'm too disabled :marseyblind: to work. I'm asking for like 37% and he still won't agree.

Next is binding arbitration. I'm so scared, None of the judges have been very kind to me. And he always gets whatever :marseyjerkofffrown: he wants. ALWAYS.

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Let this be a lesson to any ladies chasing after that rich lawyer peepee, be sure to use a fast-acting poison.

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Maybe you could stop being cheating whores and doing the exact same thing to men all the time :marseysipping:

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>Did I mention he's a trial lawyer? Personal injury. We had a lot of money, like a lot, and drove a lexus and wore fancy :marseycheers2: :marseycheers2: clothes :marseyredhood: :marseyredhood: (him too, as much or more as me), and bought 2 houses together

We? :marseystonetoss:

>mind you I have no degree :marseygrad: :marseygrad: and stayed home to

Just as I suspected.

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Pleaseeeeeee just give me 37% of his salary in perpetuity :marseycry:

What? He wants a cut of my $0 salary? Unacceptable :marseyindignant:

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Being a stay at home spouse with zero job skills is just begging :marseyinshallah: for disaster. What if the bread :marseyfrenchitsover: winner :marseyw: gets sick and can't work or straight up dies? It's betting the future :marseyremember: on a coin flip with no backup plan. If heck froze over and I meet a rich woman :marseyarthoe3: who tells me I don't have to work I'd still maintain my professional :marseysuit: license and probably work PRN.

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Assuming this is a real story, there's way more here than she's saying. She's been separated from her husband for three years. She admits to blowing her money on takeout, weed and alcohol, and in previous Reddit comments she talks about using shrooms, cocaine and heavy vaping. Her husband installed Sophos on her computer, apparently to block access to porn.

Sounds like hubby has had enough, and her fried brain can't form coherent enough thoughts or sentences to help herself.

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>foid lies to make herself out to be le poor victim

:#marseypikachu2:

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She says she helped him build his practice, which he seems to agree with if he's saying she's was essentially his paralegal. So it seems more fair that she should get an ownership stake in his practice, since she did that work with the assumption that his success equalled her success. Similar for childreering. If he never had to miss a meeting and could work unlimited overtime because she was always there to step up fir kid stuff, that has a monetary value.

>woman helps you once

>she's entitled royalties on anything you do afterwards

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The funny thing is that non lawyers can't have an ownership interest in a law firm.

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Bezos learned the hard way

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>So he wants 50 cents on the dollar once i start working, until it equals the alimony, which he then wouldn't have to pay. My lawyer has not really convinced me she's going to fight against that.

:#gigachad2:

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So he doesn't want "50 cents on the dollar" of what she earns, he just wants the alimony to be discounted based on her earnings.

Not sure how common that is, but that sounds much more reasonable than just saying that he wants half her income. It seems like if he's loaded the alimony would be enough to just live off of, so what's the problem with not working? It would admittedly be a heavy disincentive to work.

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I bet she cheated

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It's not really hard for me to believe a trial lawyer is a complete butthole either

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The probability of a foid being a cheating whore approaches 1, far above the probability of a lawyer being an butthole.

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Oh no, a foid experiences what foids routinely do to men and get cheered on for doing :marseyworldssmallestviolin:

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She's gotta have done something pretty bad to get fricked over this badly by the courts right?

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TOTAL LAWYER ANNIHILATION.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1706535659154069.webp

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:marseyquestion:Can I ask what you think went wrong in the marriage / lead up to this?

:marseymad:Did you miss the part where she said he's emotionally and physically abusive? You think he needs a reason to be a cruel butthole?

DIDN'T YOU SEE WHERE SHE WROTE A VAGUE AND ONE SIDED STORY GRRRR HOW MUCH MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED !!!

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I'm disabled :marseyblind: and we have multiple reports saying I'm too disabled :marseyblind: to work.

The disability: Being a foid.

Trans lives matter, unlike legacy foids'.

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250$/mo takeout budget

Lmao

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Why would a STAH wife need a takeout budget of any amount?

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We had a lot of money

like a lot

:#marseyxdoubt:

drove a lexus

fancy clothes

:#marseylaughpoundfist:

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1706540364533357.webp

Darn, she has a cute fluffy marsey :marseygiveup:

I hope she gets a lot from him if he's an butthole

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Simp r-slurs believe anything

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>He always gets what he wants. ALWAYS.

OMS y'xll I love foreshadowing, the HE R*PED ME HE R*PED ME arc is gonna be kino

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bought 2 houses together :marseyropewithchingchong: but could never :marseyitsover: work out staying there, and have rented for a decade and a half.

What does this mean?

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Sounds like they've been separated for a while but not formally divorced, and she's just been leaching off his money all this time. Hence the "divorce by text" thing, they probably never talk in normal life. And hence why he's so keen for her to get nothing.

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Fake and straight.

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