@BussyAtomSmasher's comment on 'Dude finds out from his GF's friends that she got plowed by 3 complete stranger men on a trip to Mexico, the problem here is actually her shitty friends telling him about it and he shouldn't care about her past.'

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Top comment:

I'm not mad at the girlfriend.

I am mad at the friends. Why in the frick would they ever tell you that?

Of COURSE it's going to ruin the relationship that they claimed they were so happy about for your girlfriend.

(-17)so they shouldve kept their mouth shut and let her bf not know that 3 mexicoo amigos fricked her?

Oh no. A woman had s*x. Call the cops.

:marseysoylentgrin: It's just normal s*x chud

(-26)It's very good they told him, he deserves to know who she is.

…who is she?

She didn't cheat. She didn't even know him yet.

There's also a very serious question of consent here. She was drunk and high and, in her own words, “feels taken advantage of.”

She didn't cheat and actually she probably got r*ped anyway :smugtranstwitter:

If you can't respect her, don't be with her. Also funny how people think it is so awful that someone had s*x with multiple people at once but separately that would be a small "body count." Oh yeah, obviously having s*x with 3 people is so much bigger deal than having s*x with 3 people.

:marseyshapiro: these things are logically the same

Hey man. You chose to date someone 3 years older than you.

I'm sure that you got into this relationship understanding that she have more life experiences than you. This is part of the package.

MMMF foursomes are just part and parcel of being a 21 year old woman these days.

Plenty of people do things they later regret, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved.

I honestly don't get how you're “less of a man” because your gf wanted to take things slower with you because she wanted a relationship to develop as opposed to just shagging a virgin asap. I can only assume it's your age and lack of experience making you come to this conclusion.

It's not remotely a red flag.

Only an inexperienced 18 year old could possibly care about this. Also some seethe under this comment, not gonna post all of it.

Bottom comment:

Well if she doesn't want to be seen as a wh**** she shouldn't be acting like one in the first place.

She is not serious relationship material, her friends are probably also this kind of girls if not even worse so imagine they go on some girls night out/trip.

If you have some self respect don't be with gang bang girl, she might be good for fun but investing your commitment and time into her is just a waste and you will regret it in the future.

Give the girl who told you truth about your GF flowers or some good wine as thank you gift. You have no idea how lucky you are you learned this.

You sound like a misogynist.

:marse#yxd:

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JimieWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess. 11mo ago #5894919

The friend wants this moid. :marseybackstab:

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tempest me/me JimieWhales 11mo ago #5894961

You ever stab someone in the back like this bb?

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JimieWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess. tempest 11mo ago #5894996

Nah, but I did once subtly undermine my prettier friend's relationship over like 6 months in college. I feel kind of bad about it, but it wasn't really a conscious thing at the time. I was just always super "on" around her and her bf. I didn't explicitly flirt with him, but I made it really obvious I was smarter and funnier and more fricked up than she was.

Eventually he broke up with her and asked me out, but I didn't really want him, I only wanted to win.

(she still won by being skinnier and prettier tho)