Being an average looking girl sucks
I feel like nobody ever talks about how much you are ignored in society, like you don't matter, when you are not noticeably attractive. I'm 18, and I have gone my whole life without any guys really liking me. It's so hard to watch all these girls get attention from guys for being attractive, and to basically get ignored as someone who isn't as attractive. I don't think I am a hideous beast or anything, I'm not fat or anything like that, I just have an average face. I think it's so wrong how many guys will only be nice or pay attention to you if they think you are attractive, at least in my experience. Shouldn't everybody get respect, even if they are not considered to be good looking by whoever's talking to them? I don't know, it just makes me sad sometimes.
guarantee she is actually ugly
No sympathy here. You could get laid easily by almost any dude just by consenting. This is a privilege even very good looking men don't enjoy.
Ew, I don't want to "get laid." I am only 18, I am not interested in all that anyway. I want a boyfriend who is like a best friend who will treat me nicely no matter what I look like. I just want to have fun, and I think it is clear from my situation that I could not.
LMAO
Are you fat?
No! I'm 5'5'' and have a 23 BMI. I know 140 lbs isn't super skinny but it's not fat and I don't look fat.
Guys at your age are shallow. In their early 20s they'll learn that beauty comes at a price. I prefer average. Keep the faith.
"i prefer average"
This is why I think it's funny how people claim women in Muslim cultures are mistreated… they overall get way more respect in general than western women in their culture.
You are young. The boys you are talking about are selfish immature and their brains dont fully mature till they are 26. Count yourself lucky.
"He was 25.5 you sick frick "
I think the problem is not you are average, the problem is that you are ugly or not attractive.
I'm a handsome man, and the average girls are the ones I prefer to date. Extremely attractive women are often rude, entitled, snobby, and unpleasant. Average girls are sweet, kind, down to earth, polite, approachable, and very easy to care about. Saying that nobody has ever liked you truly saddens me. I don't know you, but I'm quite willing to say that I'm certain you're a good catch. I promise you, no matter when it happens, you'll make a good man very happy. Keep your head up.
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Wow, she's horrible! How dare a bland 18 y/o want a boyfriend!
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she sounds outright abusive
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