This was Jan 6 for women

"it's just a joke and they're plushies"

How long before the plushies become her? Destroying property is often the first step in physical abuse

that's not the problem. the problem is that he has to wait for her to be gone to do it which means he knows she doesn't like it. and as a spouse/significant other you shouldn't get joy out of doing things you know your partner detests

It's not. What do you feel if someone destroys something that was given by someone that already passed away? This is just an example btw and even if that was nothing special, who are you to ruin other people's things? Excuse us for being emotional people

Mind you jokes are meant to be funny and this isnt it and those plushies hold emotional value to the woman and need to be respected

Unwarranted male aggression and passive aggressive behavior towards the girlfriend's belongings is a red flag. I personally would dump him. He probably does worse

my ex used to do this and i would express how genuinely upset it would make me , i like to keep my squishys plump and he would threaten to hurt them like 😭😭 what is wrong with u 😭😭

If someone punched my stuffies in the Face id actually cry. Those are my babies and they have feelings

Hitting something ur s/o loves even if it's inanimate and won't break it is a red flag imo

Dude, my plushies are so important to me. They're a very big form of comfort and if my husband did this, I'd take my stuffed animals and just leave.