I feel like some womxn are so self-unaware because they are always trying to see themselves through the eyes of others

She's insecure af but you now have to conform to what people tell you 100% or be labeled a fascist. This is terminally online people, so if she's hanging out with them that's the only reason why this would happen other than she's too insecure. Nobody gaf about tomboys being tomboys. If you don't like makeup and shit, everyone in the real world don't care. Boomers in the neighborhood will say boomer things on FB and NextDoor but who cares about nasty boomers.