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Reddit word choice and sub aside and also meaningless, that's actually really fricking sad :marseydepressed:


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Anyway @Dustyhands single lady alert


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I can't cope with loneliness , husband is in final stage of lung cancer

My wonderful, loving, supportive husband, and the best dad a 8 years old boy could wish to have, is currently in hospital. He was diagnosed with lung cancer 17 months ago, cancer now spread to his brain. Hubby doesn't want more treatment.

I'm alone at home as my friend kindly took our son away for the weekend. I thought I went through anticipatory grief already, I thought that when the worst happens , I will be strong. I broke down last night. The thought of not having my husband in my life is breaking me to tiny little pieces. We have been together for 15 years. We have seen or talk to each other every single day, 5561 days of being together. We have built life together, a family, home, friendships, little rituals like having cup of tea in the morning, you know , silly things that one takes for granted. I don't want it all to end.

I have a plan for my next chapter ,how to move on, what to do next with my life. I don't think I'm strong enough to go ahead with starting new life without support and his love. Through the past 17 months I've been constantly thinking of our son's feelings, how he will cope with loss and grief. This is really first time when I sat down and thought what the heck am I going to do without my soulmate. I'm heartbroken.

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Dont post it next day. Wait a month. This comes off as karma farming. Even if you say it is shock. Are redditors so brain fried that only way they can write is quirky reddit speak and formating.

His body isnt even cold yet. All she can think is oh poor me. What will reddit think about this turn of events

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Idk man, if I lost my wife and the mother of my kid at a horrifically young age like this I don't think I'd come on here and be like "sup brocels idk how to cope with this so I'm just sneeding" but I imagine this sort of thing basically breaks your psyche for awhile and I'm willing to give her a pass for using gay words cuz her life is effectively in ruins until further notice :/


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Loosing a spouse does do that. When my mom passed away my dad bought a show car Camero. It ended up in a garage for 8 years because he lives on a gravel road and could never drive it. Loosing my mom just made me an alcoholic and, through various events, drove me here. Thankfully I don't drink as much anymore and my outlook is better. But yeah for 3-4 years I was really fricked up.

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Over Christmas for reasons I started pondering what it would be like when both my parents die and even just considering it all in my head I've never felt so aimlessly adrift and utterly directionless. Getting older sucks shit and I don't like these considerations.


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Well I've only lost one, but since I've been through it, I have made plans for when my dad goes. But based on his family history he's probably going to be 100 or more lmao so I got time. Best advice I can give is to spend time with them and get to know them. That's my biggest regret with my Mom. But as I get older, I find I'm like her in a lot of ways which makes me happy. Since she was a good person, irl I try to be like her. This place is my outlet for the more negative side of my personality. It's inconsequential, but it's fun. Hope this helps you out. It's probably too mature for r drama dot net lmao.

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you'd have to keep trying your best because that's what they'd want

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I didnt know lesbian relationships were okey in your neck of woods.

But you know there would be line of burly men behind your door helpping you around. Would you let redditor or wpd user babysit for you? Exactly.

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"Mummy where is daddy?" "Shut up while I write this /r/adulting post"

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Love your fricking r-slurred comments bb keep it up

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Is that a compliment or an insult

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I guess a compliment but I'm trying to say that if you see me bitching people out for leaving r-slurred comments just know that doesn't apply to you.

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Aperently dad has been dying for year.

But maybe its Polish woman thing. What ever this is

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Im choosing to believe that it's fake and straight :marseyhope:

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:#marseydrama:

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Foid bad, give me le marley coins

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apparently her husband has been dying of terminal lung cancer for a couple years and her mom was diagnosed with breast cancer around the same time. she was caregiver to her husband while he was on hospice and is now a single mom/young widow. I'll cut her slack for the cringe Reddit language because that situation truly fricking sucks.

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>'me'/'my'

7 instances

>'I'/'I'm'

6 instances

>'him'

0 instances

:marse#ydepressed:

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I hate women too but she talks about him a lot, just not with that specific pronoun.

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>man dies

>womyn most affected

:marseyextinction:

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... yes? He's already dead. Nothing affects him any more.

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:femceltalking#:

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Avarage foid grieving process. My mom was same. At least way she spoke. It was pretty much how my fathers death affected her.

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>Some reason this gets me hot

She's single so get in there, big boy.

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big boy.

Clearly you havent meet me.

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Big boy(derogatory)

:marseyautismchonker:

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Ah yes, someone died. Time to whore their death for karma, updoots and simps! :marseywomanmoment2: :marseywomanmoment: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases: :marseymanysuchcases:

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Do you ever get tired of pretending to be so r-slurred

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The only thing I'm truly tired of is female bullshit.

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My husband just died, time to make this all about me

:marseywoma#nmoment2:

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Take this knife and keep yourself safe with it

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>Foid's husband just died, Grue has to make it all about xirself

:marseyropeyou#rselfmirror:

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Weird tone, but you do get kind of weird when this stuff happens. One of those things people don't talk about I suppose how you don't just get sad, you get kind of bizarre.

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What bothers me is how on nose it is current day reddit speak. Its like perfect AI post. It dosent show humanity. Just reddit.

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shoot your shot, king

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Vaxxed?

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37 is pretty darn old to be using we words like adulting.

Fail.

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She lost her half heart, she's half an adult. It makes sense.

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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.

Sigh "not all men"

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