Yeah, I mean there are several excuses here but this is what it comes down to - unless he's crushing femboy bussy like he would with a foid male gay s*x can give an "ick" for several reasons. The whole "ick" discourse centers around it being a primitive reaction and not subject to deconditioning, no matter how "yaasss slay" a girl is about homosexuality. Trying to fight it is like trying to get dudes to like fat chicks through social messaging - you can probably slightly budge this but not very much, and we should just be honest about this.