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Why do men act like women aren't lonely? :AskFeminists
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lol there's not much more of a typical woman trait than getting upset about something and making it everyone else's problem.
I always see that 'perceived status' thing. I don't know if it's an empathy error by women or that it's just an easier thing to argue against. Like if it's cultural you can just disregard it and label it as bad culture but can't really do that if it's inbuilt. I usually explain it something like that you don't eat the tasty cake because you want to gain the social status as a cake eater, but because you just like it and it makes you happy.
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I dont how women chide men for being drooling porn addled s*x obsessed animals and somehow extrapolate status seeking from it. I think they are just dishonest
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idk, I think most people are remarkably bad at understanding others. It's like how incels believe that women are having s*x 24 hours a day with other men because the incel would be having s*x all the time if he could so he just copypastes his own psychology onto everyone else. And women do the same thing, they centre most of their lives around the social effect of doing a thing and just assume that for men it must be the same.
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While its a total redditism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error
Is a thing and unironically understanding it and being aware of it with regard to yourself and others is a very useful tool to have.
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Just wanted you to know I clicked off the thread when I encountered this comment. I scrolled down past the parent comment, saw the first few words and the emote you used and was like "nope, I don't care about this exchange", then left the page.
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I thought it was a fun fact. I've never felt my brain switch off something so suddenly!
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but the women are having s*x all the time whenever they choose too seek it?
Jewish lives matter due too sunk cost fallacy.
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True, but the key point is that they don't seek it very much. The idea that women just don't like s*x that much is incomprehensible to some.
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Everypony says women just don't like s*x that much until you offer them zero s*x
Jewish lives matter due too sunk cost fallacy.
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Well if they can so easily get s*x, it makes sense they don't like it.
It's probably like water to them.
But for incels, s*x is this holy amazing thing that will fix all their life problems.
So neither side can understand each other, because one was starved of s*x while the other had s*x offered so often they got sick of it.
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No it's just innate. One good way to view it is by checking what gay men and gay women are up to. Gay men are promiscuous af and the majority of them are in non-exclusive relationships, while gay women are very monogamous, have s*x once or twice each relationship, and then struggle with lesbian bed death.
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Are you sure that isn't just because lesbian s*x is basically masturbation with toys?
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Yes, but still strongly
if that's all that was available
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Thats a severe misreading of incels. They dont think women are having s*x all the time, they think they could and use they that fact to gain social advantage.
As for women, well
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They definitely do lol, the whole incel narrative about women is that they're perpetually fricking chads until they turn 30 and then become 4ever alone cat ladies who were too stupid to leverage it anything long-term.
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Sounds more redpill PUA types than !incels tbh. Admittedly it's not surprising that few do the due diligence of differentiating.
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Don't you see the inherent contradiction? If they're only fricking chads that means that, on average, they have less s*x drive then men, allowing them to be choosier. Its economics.
That doesn't mean they aren't leveraging, only that they aren't doing so rationally. Heck the 4B movement is explicit about it, withholding s*x to move politics.
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They can be choosier but they aren't, is the argument. That's why you see seething about the "peepee carousel," "roasties" with blown out cooters, women banging a new guy every week, etc.
The whole argument about modern soyciety is that unlimited access to s*x has turned it into an endless orgy where Chad collects harems of Stacies, leaving the incel high and dry because people are no longer restricted to a single sexual partner.
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If they're only banging "chad" then by definition they are being choosier than men, who would settle for less than stacy. The argument makes no sense.
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This is wrong. What I later said doesn't contradict my initial comment at all. Incels think that 1) women are having s*x with Chad 24/7, which 2) reduces their social advantage (because there's 100 of them fricking every Chad), causing them to hit the wall without any gain. Women are always banging Chad, so them being "choosy" doesn't impact them until they become old, and have missed the opportunity for social gain they would get by banging the incel. Which is why incels hate Chad too, because he's hoarding all the women.
Maybe incel ideology has changed. But that's what it was a decade ago.
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its because it just is more important to men.
its precisely because even the ugliest foid has 1000 moids in waiting that they don't value s*x the same way. maybe it doesn't "cure lonliness" for a foid, but that's because we're two different thigns
and moids aren't just you but with a
instead of trying to see how maybe moids view things differently they once again pathologize masculinity as some 'flawed' femininity
because valuing s*x like that is weird for women, and women actually would only be chasing after a moid like that for 'status'
(see how they talk about their percieved ability to "pull" celebrities or whatever)
it's all through their lens
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