I still don't get why women get so insecure enough about "would you still love me if I was ugly" to the point of shit testing their mate about it. Like yo I would still love you if you were ugly because we had good times and my brain works normally so that has created a good enough bond that I still enjoy your company as we age and get uglier with time, but if you go out of your way to uglify yourself just to shittest me then obviously I don't like you while you are ugly because you are doing this r-slurred thing where you are going out of your way to be ugly. Its like when a poor dad is frugal you get it and still appreciate it but when a rich dad is frugal without reason you know its at the edge of mental illness.