Obviously there's some correlation. Chuds think they have it figured out but their answers just don't seem realistic.
Personally, I think sexuality becomes a cope/outlet for identity distress and that's why euphoria and sexual response ends up triggering over similar things.
@X I dunno that seems pretty far cooled to me
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I think there is a connection between how sexuality presents itself and the emotional crisises a person is having. For instance if you have a bad relationship with your father you have daddy issues, etc
So for s the main crisis in their life is around their sexual identity so they sexualize it
That sexual identity may also be a sexualization of other identity related crisises
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Like how a r*pe victim is more likely to fetishize r*pe? Sexuality becoming a sandbox they can exert some greater control over
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Maybe, I tend to think of it like this: most things we do in life are metaphorical for s*x (being the prime directive of all life) but what does s*x mean? I think it's like a storm drain with a grate over it, big issues get stuck on it instead of passing through
Also cathartic release and sexual release are basically the same thing so there is probably some crossed wires in there
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