Obviously there's some correlation. Chuds think they have it figured out but their answers just don't seem realistic.
Personally, I think sexuality becomes a cope/outlet for identity distress and that's why euphoria and sexual response ends up triggering over similar things.
@X I dunno that seems pretty far cooled to me
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It is sexually arousing when someone sees you as sexually attractive. That someone can include yourself.
I think that when you first start experimenting, you're surprised by how good you look. Normally, you hate yourself and your body, but now suddenly you think you look a lot better and are more worthy of sexual desire (in your eyes). That arousal quickly fades once you get more acquainted with your new body, though. (For true AGP's, that arousal does not fade).
I should note again that being aroused that you're found attractive (in sexual contexts) is normal, especially for women. I've talked a lot about this w my cis bestie, and she agrees that being seen as hot is part of her sexuality. Also, she won't shut up about her fabulous butt, so there's that too. People (including her) sometimes comment on my attire, such as saying that I look like a Christian mom and/or that it's Christian Girl Autumn. I think by the time Hot Girl Summer rolls around, I'll have a few more slutty tops
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