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People of Fedora big mad when told to man up

https://rdrama.net/post/11830/foids-mad-men-can-deal-with/211311/?context=99#context

Imagine getting dunked on by a chadlet and a German shapeshifting water spirit.

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he mentioned that he likes to take things emotionally slow because he โ€œwent through a traumatic relationship 3 years ago.โ€

So he's setting expectations for their relationship (which is mature/healthy of him) based on his experiences in a past relationship (which is dumb to bring up on a second date but some people may want to understand his reasoning, otherwise they may think he's completely emotionally uninvested)

Let me tell you how his jaw dropped when I said โ€œand you didnโ€™t seek therapy or do something to work on that? Instead you are here on a second date telling me about all the ways youโ€™ll compare me to an ex who โ€œtraumatizedโ€ you? You shouldnโ€™t be dating at all.โ€

Highly embellished BPD internal narrative. His jaw dropped? Really?

I cut the date short, he tried to walk me to my car but I insisted on going myself and then he texted me asking me to verify when I made it home before I blocked him.

There's a difference between being honest and completely sperging out on your date because of assumptions and advice taken from a subreddit populated by old hens.

The guy is undoubtedly a loser who needs to A: get over himself and B: recognize BPD before it bites him again. Don't walk BPD to her car, climb out the bathroom window and drive far, far away before she can write down your license plate number.

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Excuse me. I came here for donk memes. Instead I'm getting a mature analysis and teachings of social interactions. I wasn't ready for that, but I'm welcoming it with open hands.

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