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Boyfriend used the 'used car analogy' : TrueOffMyChest

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so many redditors :marseypearlclutch:ing and :marseyseethe:ing

Everyone here is going to cheer you on for sleeping around. They'll tell you it's your body, it's your choice, and while that's true you have to understand, every action has consequences. The vast majority of the people cheering you on aren't married, haven't had any real long term relationship, and probably never will.
These people will tell you your BF is a terrible person for having a preference. They'll tell you that your rather pathetic sounding male friends are right.
The question is, do you really want to be like these people?
I mean, let's be real. Your male friends seem like the kinds of people that would give that "it's her body, her choice" line when their gf cheats on them. Either that, or they're so scared of offending you that they'd never be honest.
The reality is that men care about how many men a woman has been with. The kind of men that don't care, most women don't want to begin with so why pay them any attention?
If your relationship works, then why let losers ruin a good thing?

Wow way to say you're an incel

:#soycry:

>i used the word incel therefore you're wrong

This is really interesting to me. My perception of the Dutch is that they are far more sexually liberal than Americans. Has Andrew Tate seeped into the Netherlands too?

lmao :marseyrentfree:

check her (i hope) post history

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Does he feel this way about men who slept with more than 10 women, or is this 'theory' strictly for women?

Why do these dumbass foids think this is some sort of gotcha?

"Hey straight male why aren't you concerned about how many people random dudes (that you aren't interested in because you're straight) sleep with? Checkmate! :marseysoylentgrin: "

And he's only fricked her so it isn't like he's a hypocrite regarding himself either.

TLDR: Women are r-slurs and giving them rights was a mistake.

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Does he feel this way about men who slept with more than 10 women, or is this 'theory' strictly for women?

Several studies have shown that an increased number of premarital intercourse partners increases the likelihood of divorce. A 2014 summary of previous studies found that this trend does not hold true for men, however.

We further found that the more intercourse partners a woman had had before marriage, the less happy she reported her marriage to be. This association was not statistically significant for men.

It is not 'theory' that increased number of premarital intercourse partners reduces relationship quality, nor is it 'theory' that such an association applies only to women's intercourse partners. If you don't believe these (admittedly biased) articles, look at the primary sources they cite, or look it up yourself, and you will find this is the overwhelming consensus among researchers.

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I think the problem many people sneeding have is that they fail to understand what these studies are actually showing. People with character traits that lead to sexually risky behaviour are shit relationship material :marseycutattention: :marseyarthoe:

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They should trust the science

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or they could use their eyes and understand how human psychology and society actually works and come to these conclusions themselves. you need to look in good faith tho.

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Don't choose your feelings to make decisions choose reality.

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Someone make the lock analogy. :marseytroublemaker:

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"Would you rather have a lock only opened by one key, or a lock that's had dozens of peepeees in it?"

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