In Poland it is prohibited by law to beat people and children obv, (in australia and canada it's apparently awwwight if you use it "reasonably"
I am completely against it, my mom never hit me. She did shout a lot at me though and it had really bad impact on me. We talked recently about it even and she felt bad about it.
I think that if one gets driven mad by their child and thinks it's a good reason to spank them, they should not have children in first place and resolve their dumb mental issues with a professional
But some people (here is data from a polish report) https://fdds.pl/_Resources/Persistent/a/7/5/8/a758b76965a114d233d30bbdb81f58845242d7a6/Postawy%20i%20stosowanie%20kar%20-%20raport.pdf
In Poland, the percentage of opponents of corporal punishment has been syste-
matically increasing. In 2022 more than half (59%) of participants in our study be-
lieved that beating children as a punishment should never be used.
β’ Since 2017 there has been a substantial increase in support for the legal ban on corpo-
ral punishment by parents against their children. In 2022 it was supported by amajori-
ty (70%) of respondents. More than half of the respondents (57%) know that in Poland
the use of physical punishment by parents against their children is legally prohibited.
β’ The majority of respondents supported a legal ban on slapping a child across the face
(70%), beating hard with a hand (68%), beating with a belt or other object (68%), pulling by
the hair or ear (66%) and shaking or pushing (62%), and half (50%) of respondents agreed
with the legal prohibition of spanking children (this percentage increased from 34% in 2017).
β’ Half of the respondents (51%) witnessed verbal disciplining a child in the year pre-
ceding the survey, and 39% when physically disciplining a child. In total, 60% of
the respondents encountered a situation of child abuse.
β’ A significant proportion of witnesses of both verbal (38%) and physical (41%) cha-
stisement remained passive towards these behaviors.
β’ According to respondents, police and NGOs are the institutions that children who
have been victims of maltreatment can count on to the greatest extent.
β’ Most parents at least several times disciplined their children verbally (70%) and
used prohibitions and restrictions (70%), and 39% of respondents more than once
disciplined their children with corporal punishment. The most common method of
disciplining a child with force was spanking (36%).
β’ 6% of parents admitted to frequent disciplining their children physically. There
was a positive relationship between the frequent use of various forms of corporal
punishment by parents β all were significantly correlated with one another.
β’ Strong nervousness (38%) is the most frequently indicated by parents as a reason
for the use of physical punishment.
β’ The prevalence of parental burnout among parents aged 18β44 was 4%. The level
of parental burnout was positively correlated with the frequent infliction of cor-
poral punishment.
β’ Respondents find the lack of time, tiredness and trouble in balancing professional
life and the role of being a parent as the biggest difficulties.
β’ According to the respondents, own experiences, family members or friends, as
well as psychologists and educators are the most important sources of knowledge
about raising children.
β’ ΒΎ of the respondents said that people raising children should be supported by the
family, and 67% see the state in this role.
β’ Adults had various memories of the physical punishments, which were used by
their parents when they were children. For some of them, these situations were
traumatic, while others claimed that they did not leave any emotional scars.
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My parents never had to resort to violence when dealing with me cuz I was a good boy
My r-slured siblings can not say the same, howver
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i had fights with my brothers a lot of time
i don't remember i have ever been struck, maybe my dad but i honestly dont remember my a lot of my childhood.
now i am a model citizien dog-like follower and mute
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Yeah my parents grew up in a dictatorship where loyalty to your superiors was expected. That probably influenced them a lot.
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well i live in poland
i dont have a grudge against my mom for shouting a lot at me though, she went through a lot at least she has not repeated the exact same punishmens as her mom did
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