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(married) Redditor goes to a strip club, breaks down crying when a stripper :marseytwerking: smiles at him. :marseylaugh:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/pzn97c/i_went_to_a_strip_club_for_the_first_time_and_i/?sort=controversial

I've never had a moral objection to strip clubs. If two consenting adults want to exchange money for sexual teasing, who am I to stop them? But I did have a financial objection to strip clubs. The drinks are obscenely expensive, there's plenty of free/inexpensive porn online, and tipping is awkward even when there's no nudity involved.

Later, when I approach a girl, she smiles at me. Girls don't smile at me. Guys don't smile at me. My approach is not something at elicits smiles. But when I walk up to this girl she smiles like I just made her night because she was hoping I'd talk to her.

I think back to that night now, and I cry. I cry because of how happy it made me, and how that contrasts with my day to day life.

I cry because, in my nervousness, I think I forgot to even tell this girl my name. And even if I did tell her, she wouldn't remember it by now.

I'm having a really hard time processing these feelings, and I don't know who to talk to. I want to talk to my wife about it, but I don't know how. I love her, and I don't want to hurt her. I don't want her to think that I don't find her attractive, because I do. I don't want her to think that I doubt her love, because I don't. But I don't know how to explain that the feelings I felt in that strip club were powerfully different than what I feel at home.

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I feel sad for the guy but at the same time I can’t imagine being so pathetic you’re traumatized by feeling wanted. Especially when he has a wife? Super confused by that last. Part thought it was gonna be 20+ year old virgin. Does his wife just hate him or something? Maybe she’s uggo and he had never felt wanted by an attractive woman?


This morning, Cum went to the park. I went with Coom. And Cum brought Coomer frisbee. At least I think it was Coomers. By the end of the day, Cum started throwing the frisbee to Cumself.

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What's crazy is its not that she wanted him, it's that she was willing to smile at him to get his money. I have a feeling the wife is probably ugly but loves him which is why she's willing to put up with his pathetic self. Meanwhile he just settled for her and is dreaming that one day he'll be able to leave her for a better looking foid that he feels he truly deserves.

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Even more disgusting if true.

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